This is called "wishful thinking". I've talked here, about the people's inability to correlate all their knowledge, that most of the time - save them from themselves (although doesn't save the others). You can see a lot of people talking about their small box of understanding, and if you read it initially, it can sound convincing. However, when you get to know more and more of such boxes, they don't agree to each other. Who is right and who is wrong? Is there a "common truth"? At the end, people choose to believe whatever they want to believe. And that's fine, BUT if they actually do what they believe in, which is quite rare quality. Do as I say, not as I do... This is so wide spread problem, since this is part of how the human brain evolved. There is no such thing as "consistent" brain, and consistent personality. Deep inside, we still have a fish brain, a reptile brain, and our self conscious brain is quite small part of the whole messy thing we call "me"...
I bet this gal was young some time ago, and her brain commanded to pump hormones into her body, to the point she didn't care about any of these things she write now. I know, since I've been also young, and I've met a lot of women, that had no understanding of intimacy beyond sex and sexual attraction. But at the same time, they will say - I want someone to really love me, to really care, to be tender, to communicate with me... But in reality, her reptile brain says - chose this guy, he is dominant, he is violent, he is good looking, he is popular, you can just have sex and don't need to talk about how you really feel (since her emotional state is a mess)...
These days, I'm with Woody Allen's movie - "Whatever works". I stopped pretending, that I can define and put in a box the human relationships. They are generally messy, egoistic, temporary, dishonest. Not that there aren't also good things... But you must take it, for what it is. Don't cling desperately into the idea of relationship, and that there is always a way to make it work... Most relationships are actually highly dysfunctional, they will never work and this is even worse then being alone. I wish people were a bit more honest, and had smaller expectations, work on their own mental health. This would increase the successful rate a lot.