Hello, I'm new to this forum and I'm learning a bit about the spectrum because I'm interested in an amazing guy who turned out to be an aspie. He's really smart and handsome (he disagrees with this, he often calls himself ugly on his posts). When we first started talking (well, I talked to him) via Facebook, he told me that he was very shy (which was confirmed by some friends in common), he then told me that he suffered from depression and anxiety, and some time later he told me that he's an aspie. That made it easier for me to understand him although I didn't know much about autism.
I really like him and I thought of confessing my feelings for him, because I don't want to keep that to myself anymore. I know that I need to be clear, so I'll just explain that he got my attention with his posts on Facebook, and that when I got to know him, I realized that I found him intellectually attractive, and that he's in fact fairly handsome.
Could this scare him away? Or is even direct enough? I don't think I've ever confessed my love to someone before but I'm really into him. And I don't even know if I should ask if he feels the same way about me. I have no clue whether he likes me or not, but I appreciate his time and what he shares with me because he usually tells me that he doesn't talk to anyone (except for a friend).
I'd gladly accept his friendship if he rejects me (should I include this in my message as well?). And we haven't met in real life because we live 1048 km apart but it's not impossible since we share a professional environment where we could meet anytime.
I really like him and I thought of confessing my feelings for him, because I don't want to keep that to myself anymore. I know that I need to be clear, so I'll just explain that he got my attention with his posts on Facebook, and that when I got to know him, I realized that I found him intellectually attractive, and that he's in fact fairly handsome.
Could this scare him away? Or is even direct enough? I don't think I've ever confessed my love to someone before but I'm really into him. And I don't even know if I should ask if he feels the same way about me. I have no clue whether he likes me or not, but I appreciate his time and what he shares with me because he usually tells me that he doesn't talk to anyone (except for a friend).
I'd gladly accept his friendship if he rejects me (should I include this in my message as well?). And we haven't met in real life because we live 1048 km apart but it's not impossible since we share a professional environment where we could meet anytime.