SimplyWandering
Well-Known Member
Not exactly sure what to do... my partner of 2 1/2 years (it is has been up and down the whole time) and I have different schedules normally (he sleeps late, wants to wake up whenever he wants)
He often falls asleep on the couch in the living room, which upsets me.
He wants a separate bedroom to sleep in and escape to for alone time, which he wants a lot of. He said he would come visit me.
I told him that i would not accept that as solution, while we do have a 2nd bedroom it is meant as a guest bed.
I suggested we could have 2 beds in our room, but what he wanted was out of the question. It got heated.
I think their is some rigidity that we both have.
He is currently taking a walk To calm down.
i did tell him that if that is what he wanted we should just stop being with each other. Maybe that was too harsh, but it is upsetting to me.
He often falls asleep on the couch in the living room, which upsets me.
He wants a separate bedroom to sleep in and escape to for alone time, which he wants a lot of. He said he would come visit me.
I told him that i would not accept that as solution, while we do have a 2nd bedroom it is meant as a guest bed.
I suggested we could have 2 beds in our room, but what he wanted was out of the question. It got heated.
I think their is some rigidity that we both have.
He is currently taking a walk To calm down.
i did tell him that if that is what he wanted we should just stop being with each other. Maybe that was too harsh, but it is upsetting to me.