My teen was diagnosed with Autism (Aspergers) last fall. At the suggestion of the insurance company, we signed up for ABA therapy. Now that therapy is over, our teen is back to cursing us out when we take items away or threatening to run away, sometimes even suicide. I am now realizing the reason for this is because they won’t “get in trouble” by the therapist anymore now that ABA is over.
Do we just find another therapist? Our autistic child is very unreasonable, doesn’t care about hygiene, appearance or following the rules. They talk to themselves and it’s very severe, the therapist told us that my teen is practicing what to say to others, but I listen and hear them in there talking in a very degrading manner(talking in a different voice, yelling at self, etc). I’m very tired of being call idiot, b words and all types of other things. Punishment doesn’t work. At all. Therapist recommend that they find something constructive to do other than electronics but instead they just lay in the room. Talking to oneself or tearing stuff up.
What should we do? They graduate high school next year and I just don’t know how they will do own their own at college. Do we get another evaluation? Another therapist? I’m not even comfortable in my own home and find myself getting depressed.
Phone/games get taken away for things like not doing homework. Not doing chores. We tried letting them earn Internet/phone time for doing chores but that didn’t work.
Do we just find another therapist? Our autistic child is very unreasonable, doesn’t care about hygiene, appearance or following the rules. They talk to themselves and it’s very severe, the therapist told us that my teen is practicing what to say to others, but I listen and hear them in there talking in a very degrading manner(talking in a different voice, yelling at self, etc). I’m very tired of being call idiot, b words and all types of other things. Punishment doesn’t work. At all. Therapist recommend that they find something constructive to do other than electronics but instead they just lay in the room. Talking to oneself or tearing stuff up.
What should we do? They graduate high school next year and I just don’t know how they will do own their own at college. Do we get another evaluation? Another therapist? I’m not even comfortable in my own home and find myself getting depressed.
Phone/games get taken away for things like not doing homework. Not doing chores. We tried letting them earn Internet/phone time for doing chores but that didn’t work.