JB2018
Active Member
I have a few close friends who know I'm "nerdy", and have gently reminded me that I tend to say something short, smile, and be on my way when I need to go. They have told me that if someone doesn't know you, this can be interpreted as rude.
It happened again yesterday, and I stayed in a conversation too long which made me late for the next thing I had to do.
I think my close friends are right, but I have a lot of difficulty recognizing signals in others and giving appropriate signals back to them. I've been called aloof, disinterested, and snobby by people who don't know me -- which does sting. (In fact, people who have become friends over time almost always say that they thought I was those things when they first met me.)
So if you have any suggestions about what I might say or do to gracefully exit from a conversation with someone without appearing rude, I'd love to hear it.
Thanks in advance!
It happened again yesterday, and I stayed in a conversation too long which made me late for the next thing I had to do.
I think my close friends are right, but I have a lot of difficulty recognizing signals in others and giving appropriate signals back to them. I've been called aloof, disinterested, and snobby by people who don't know me -- which does sting. (In fact, people who have become friends over time almost always say that they thought I was those things when they first met me.)
So if you have any suggestions about what I might say or do to gracefully exit from a conversation with someone without appearing rude, I'd love to hear it.
Thanks in advance!