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I often go the the market to be around other people. Sometimes I don’t even need anything from the market. I just go to be around people.
Is your loneliness simply about being around other people?
Hi, Grommet! I'm glad you posted your note and visited here. Please come back soon. There are lots of friendly people here when you're lonely and feel like talking.
i understand what it feels like but me personally, i like being all to myself. i know some of you might disagree and that's okay. maybe soon I'll explain a little better. forgive me if i was coming off as rude.
I feel quite lonely at times. I do go out more to socialize and take walks which helps some.
It's more than just being around random people. Sometimes I just want someone to understand without talking for three hours explaining what to me, is obvious.
Just need to make a connection sometimes.
Understanding and safety ...so important.
Are there any autism societies where you live? Sometimes they have social groups for autistic adults.
i have also seen groups for autistic adults on meetup.com, if you have not checked there.
Or could you start one? There must be autistic adults where you live, we are everywhere, just not always visible.
thought about attending groups with interests that were most likely to attract autistic people. I am still thinking about that.
you need to see a therapist !this isn’t just autism ,it is autism and anxiety , go to the resources section on this forum and look at suicide hotline’s ,talk !to somebody on one of them .Sometimes I have gone out for walks but I do not know why, I am very very nervous, scared even, when I am just walking around in public. I do not know what I am afraid of. It all just seems so random, the things they do. And they are so loud and rude, they are not very nice to each other, reaching in front of each other and shouting, not making way for each other. I do not understand that. So I go for walks trying to be less lonely but the whole time I know I am not like them so I come home feeling lonelier.
Therapy isn’t always necessary. I feel this way most of the time in public and know it’s because I don’t have anyone with me for company. If I had company, (which is rare) I wouldn’t think as much about those around me than if I was alone in my head. Loneliness can have us overthinking which can lead to anxiety issues.Sometimes I have gone out for walks but I do not know why, I am very very nervous, scared even, when I am just walking around in public. I do not know what I am afraid of. It all just seems so random, the things they do. And they are so loud and rude, they are not very nice to each other, reaching in front of each other and shouting, not making way for each other. I do not understand that. So I go for walks trying to be less lonely but the whole time I know I am not like them so I come home feeling lonelier.