Anxiety does not physiologically affect one's eyesight, though stress of all sorts can make us more psychologically sensitive in all sorts of ways.
Maui Jims are polarised sunglasses - good quality product for an off the shelf solution but very limited when it comes to Rx options.
Raybans are now made by Luxottica - an Italian frame manufacturer who are the dominant force in spectacle frames and make over half of the "designer" names you might be familiar with. They recently merged with Essilor - the world's biggest Rx lens manufacturer.
The classic tint on rayban lenses is called "G-15" - a grey-green colour which allows 15% of visible light through (LTF or Light Transmission Factor). Generically it can be supplied on Rx lenses as "grey-green 15%LTF"
There is no solution for flourescent lights other than avoidance I'm afraid. Tinted or photochromic lenses might help though. Transitions Xtractive lenses might be worth looking at. They react indoors to a degree and have a darker residual colour. I'm sensitive to flourescents and they make them a bit more bearable to me and a few other autistic people I know IRL with similar issues. Replacing flourescents wherever possible is the best solution though.
There is no such lens I'm aware of, and no coloured lens should have any physiological effect on anxiety at all. You could try seeing an Irlen specialist who would undoubtedly recommend something, they always do. I did the training for dispensing Irlen lenses/overlays but did not feel I could do so professionally in good conscience, but if you've found it to help before, maybe they can suggest something that you would feel helped you now. Sorry I can't offer anything more concrete on that topic.