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Just because I am an aspie does not mean (vent)

Kit

Kit

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I have to listen to someone ***** and moan about how bad their lives are just because they don't have things other people have or just because they got a whipping and other people didn't. Just because I have AS does not mean I have to deal with that repetitiveness.

Just because I am aspie does not mean I have to deal with other aspie crap like listening to you talk about your obsessions over and over or talking and talking and never letting me talk or talking about what you want to talk about but not want to hear what I want to talk about.

I also don't have to deal with you being in my personal space and not give a **** when I tell you to stand an arm length away or deal with your rude remarks.

Just because I have AS does not mean I have to deal with your procrastination. I do not like people holding me up or not showing up when they said they will or taking two hours to leave their home when they said they were leaving. I do not like people saying we are leaving but instead they don't leave for another hour or thirty minutes. I do not like that we are leaving to see a movie and I tell you what time the movie starts and what time we are leaving by and by the time it's time to go, you are not ready and you take so fricken long I have to nag you to get out of the house.

It just pisses me off that someone online thinks just because I am aspie I have to deal with her being repetitive about how bad her life is and how she got a whipping and how others have it better than her.
 
I can relate to the one you mentioned about listening to people go on about their obsessions. I have friends that do this all the frigging time and don't give 2 shits about my interests, believe it or not I don't actually talk about mine that much to my friends, since I'm too busy pretending to be interested in their constant ramblings. Don't get me wrong I love these friends to bits but they don't half bore me.

I think I'll add my own:
Just because I'm an aspie doesn't mean I want to be reminded of it, please do not tell everyone I speek to that is an authority figure (doctors, teachers...) it really isn't relevant right now. (My mum does this all the time.)
 
The friends I've mentioned yes. Although it's just one in particular that is notorious for his obsession ramblings.
 
I can relate to some of that. I'm guessing this is just a general rant and not directed at anyone specifically?
 
General rant and about my online friend regarding her bitterness. She told me I am an aspie so I have to deal with her being repetitive and it pissed me off. I finally blocked her because I got so sick of it. I don't know when I will unblock her again.
 
If you can't sya anything positive don't even bother. And if you can't come to terms wiht who you are and what WE go through, again don't bother. I don't appreciate those who are so much on their own bandwagon and high horses that they won't show kindness and compassion for others and their struggles no matter what their diagnoses are. You may just show yourself to be no better than the pathetic nt's that I despise and have ruined my life for years. When you act like the ones who are barren of anything inside, you will be treated accordingly.
 
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Actually I don't do those things because I learned not to. I remember to stand an arm length away from everyone and I don't talk about the same stuff over and over and I listen to what other people talk about when we talk. I also don't like holding people up and I keep my word. I get anxiety when I don't know when we are leaving or what time someone be here and all that because they kept procrastinating. Same as if we have to be somewhere by a certain time. I just prefer to go alone. I wouldn't let my husband come to my next prenetal cares about I had a massive meltdown because he wouldn't come when I told him to and he had to do certain things first when he told me before he went back to bed he has to put his shoes on and that's it. Thank goodness we were not late for my appointment. So why would I want to put someone else in that spot?

And if my repetitive bitching is bothering someone, I expect them to tell me so I will stop and try and not do it. Rude remarks, I don't say things I know that are rude. If something I say offends someone, I just apologize even if I don't understand. I try and accommodate every person I talk to.

I don't think we are any better than NTs and aspies can also get annoyed by other aspies with their traits and everything I listed in my OP, we can learn to not do.
 
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