harrietjansson
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Howdy!
I have had many teachers (not just school teachers) give me too difficult tasks/assignments.
When I learn I need to follow all the steps (1,2,3, and so on). When I skip some of these steps I often fail. When the teachers asked me to follow all the steps I did suceed.
I will give you an example:
I take singing lessons and my teacher has asked me to do exercices that will help me say the lyrics with feeling and without missing to pronounce the consonants (so that you will hear what I say or sing).
The teacher before my current teacher only really told me to beware of the missing consonants in my singing but she never asked me to do special exercices. She only told me to be aware of my issue. We never did any specific training.
Many teachers skip helping students with the fundamentals it seems. It's like they skip some steps of learning. I have seen this in many situations.
Many teachers push their students to do things that is "too difficult" for them. I know many "aspies" who cannot learn this way.
I have met teachers who have said that they actually used the correct method and that it is my fault for not learning. I don't see the purpose of skipping steps in the learning process. Perhaps "normal" people want "too difficult" tasks but with ASD you will see meltdowns or shutdowns or people hating the word "teacher"?
My questions: is this issue something that is an "aspie" issue? Can you relate to this? "Normal" people seem better at skiping some of the steps that I need. Is this also your expeirence?
Are teachers often bad at theory of mind even if they are "normal"? It's nature/nuture, right? "Normal" people are not just born with a great theory of mind. They need to practice a lot and many just go by talent, right?
Perhaps I should say that "aspies issue" does not refer to an issue that is just something that people wth ASD experience. People with ADHD probably also experience this and people who are a little bit ASD but would never get a diagnosis as they are called "normal", ie not having the full syndrome.
I have had many teachers (not just school teachers) give me too difficult tasks/assignments.
When I learn I need to follow all the steps (1,2,3, and so on). When I skip some of these steps I often fail. When the teachers asked me to follow all the steps I did suceed.
I will give you an example:
I take singing lessons and my teacher has asked me to do exercices that will help me say the lyrics with feeling and without missing to pronounce the consonants (so that you will hear what I say or sing).
The teacher before my current teacher only really told me to beware of the missing consonants in my singing but she never asked me to do special exercices. She only told me to be aware of my issue. We never did any specific training.
Many teachers skip helping students with the fundamentals it seems. It's like they skip some steps of learning. I have seen this in many situations.
Many teachers push their students to do things that is "too difficult" for them. I know many "aspies" who cannot learn this way.
I have met teachers who have said that they actually used the correct method and that it is my fault for not learning. I don't see the purpose of skipping steps in the learning process. Perhaps "normal" people want "too difficult" tasks but with ASD you will see meltdowns or shutdowns or people hating the word "teacher"?
My questions: is this issue something that is an "aspie" issue? Can you relate to this? "Normal" people seem better at skiping some of the steps that I need. Is this also your expeirence?
Are teachers often bad at theory of mind even if they are "normal"? It's nature/nuture, right? "Normal" people are not just born with a great theory of mind. They need to practice a lot and many just go by talent, right?
Perhaps I should say that "aspies issue" does not refer to an issue that is just something that people wth ASD experience. People with ADHD probably also experience this and people who are a little bit ASD but would never get a diagnosis as they are called "normal", ie not having the full syndrome.
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