Ruth_Alice
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Is it realistic to pursue a relationship with an NT in the hope that they could be your lifetime partner? The older I get, the more I feel like the more normal a person is, the less hope there is that things could work out between us, because he will inevitably become disenchanted with me and confused by the amount of time that I need to spend alone as well as some of the other struggles I face because of how my mind seems to process things. Or how I only have 2 friends that I ever really see. I just can't help but feel like with my life being so solitary and uneventful... that would probably be a dealbreaker for most people. Because of these concerns, it's often hard for me to even give NTs a chance when it comes to dating, even when they're the ones expressing the initial interest in me.
Is that fair, or could I be worrying too much in some ways? I just can't help but feel like within a matter of time, they would feel like I was too much for them and want someone more normal. And then it seems like it would just end up being a heartbreaking waste of time.
Is that fair, or could I be worrying too much in some ways? I just can't help but feel like within a matter of time, they would feel like I was too much for them and want someone more normal. And then it seems like it would just end up being a heartbreaking waste of time.