Feels like manipulation is at an all time high with the pandemic. Not that people werent' this way before, but I feel like it's even more so.
If people want to get out of something, as if ghosting isn't bad enough, people can't be honest. They just fake talk or fake their interest and purposely treat one crappy.
I had a date I matched with virtually. We started having a good conversation. We each carry our own "weight". He purposely canceled and supposedly forgot about our phone call scheduled only one day later than we planned because he was "relaxing to a TV show" and he "might call later." "might" always means "never".
Earlier , I had another virtual date and we had one video call, and then we planned to meet but he flaked out on me last minute and said it was "too cold" and he refused to drive to me as he wasn't willing to have me over, but I was willing to havve him over if we met at the mall first. I was willing to wear layers and everything.
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I also quit a "support" group I was in recently because I got the run around about setting up a date for the board game event, and then didn't have hosting privileges for the online meetup either.
Why are people so cruel?
If people want to get out of something, as if ghosting isn't bad enough, people can't be honest. They just fake talk or fake their interest and purposely treat one crappy.
I had a date I matched with virtually. We started having a good conversation. We each carry our own "weight". He purposely canceled and supposedly forgot about our phone call scheduled only one day later than we planned because he was "relaxing to a TV show" and he "might call later." "might" always means "never".
Earlier , I had another virtual date and we had one video call, and then we planned to meet but he flaked out on me last minute and said it was "too cold" and he refused to drive to me as he wasn't willing to have me over, but I was willing to havve him over if we met at the mall first. I was willing to wear layers and everything.
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I also quit a "support" group I was in recently because I got the run around about setting up a date for the board game event, and then didn't have hosting privileges for the online meetup either.
Why are people so cruel?