So I recently matched with a woman on one of the dating apps there is there days. I found her attractive and we chatted for a while on the app. She seemed very interested. After a few days of chatting she said "text me tomorrow?" and then left her number. We texted a bunch of days. She initiated a fair amount of conversation - it was not just me asking questions like it sometimes goes.
At some point she ended a conversation with..."You should ask me out sometime!". Which I planned to soon anyway. So I did ask her like a day later to go to dinner. At that time she had a cold, but I asked to go on a specific day that was a few days in advance. She agreed. Lots of exclamation marks, etc. over the course of all the texts.
After I mentioned a place, suddenly responses to texts were less and less timely. She asked if it was a super fancy place and then suggested Indian food. I responded saying not really that fancy but nice and said I'd be open to Indian food.
The next day - the day we were supposed to meet for dinner she sent a text that she had an ear infection and would have to rain check. This was only like 4 or 5 hours before when we would likely have met (although we hadn't set a definitive time yet or determined a location). I said "Sorry to hear, feel better soon". I didn't say anything else since I was annoyed she gave me such late notice and I wasn't sure that I necessarily believed her. Neither of us has texted once since that and it has been a couple of days now.
So, I'm confused what happened. I know that no one knows for sure, but what do you think? Is she suddenly not interested anymore? How likely is it that she lied to me? Why would there be such a change in heart? Or does she expect me to reach out to see how she is feeling? I did reach out once when she had her cold. But this time I figured it was on her to text me next since she was the one who canceled on me.
My guess is she did lie to me. Who knows. Probably hooked up with someone over the weekend and was no longer interested. Oh not that it matters but she has a kid, and I can't say I was excited about that fact but was willing to meet at least.
At some point she ended a conversation with..."You should ask me out sometime!". Which I planned to soon anyway. So I did ask her like a day later to go to dinner. At that time she had a cold, but I asked to go on a specific day that was a few days in advance. She agreed. Lots of exclamation marks, etc. over the course of all the texts.
After I mentioned a place, suddenly responses to texts were less and less timely. She asked if it was a super fancy place and then suggested Indian food. I responded saying not really that fancy but nice and said I'd be open to Indian food.
The next day - the day we were supposed to meet for dinner she sent a text that she had an ear infection and would have to rain check. This was only like 4 or 5 hours before when we would likely have met (although we hadn't set a definitive time yet or determined a location). I said "Sorry to hear, feel better soon". I didn't say anything else since I was annoyed she gave me such late notice and I wasn't sure that I necessarily believed her. Neither of us has texted once since that and it has been a couple of days now.
So, I'm confused what happened. I know that no one knows for sure, but what do you think? Is she suddenly not interested anymore? How likely is it that she lied to me? Why would there be such a change in heart? Or does she expect me to reach out to see how she is feeling? I did reach out once when she had her cold. But this time I figured it was on her to text me next since she was the one who canceled on me.
My guess is she did lie to me. Who knows. Probably hooked up with someone over the weekend and was no longer interested. Oh not that it matters but she has a kid, and I can't say I was excited about that fact but was willing to meet at least.