If real men can't hit women, why women can hit men?

[Inator]

If real men can't hit women, why women can hit men and get away with it?
Well, I have my own difficulties trying to relate to anyone, I know I "am meant" to treat women more delicately (not that anyone I meet at first needs any "delicate" treat from mine part, because... do anyone treat me goodly anyway?), but so far I haven't been able to properly do so no matter how much I try. This is why, so far, most if not all of my "friends" are all male. But even yet, I always try to give respect. Just like with anyone else out there, to myself I am not superior nor inferior to anybody, nor anyone else is superior nor inferior to my person. Equal respect.
If anyone on my same level tries to force me to do something "because I got to do it", I will reply back unless I am given a good enough reason for it. Yes, overall I am a pretty passive guy, however, if a woman hits me for not obeying what she says, don't expect I am going to just sit there and let it happen. Really, I already have my own issues, and really, this would be the straw that breaks the camel's back. Does not anyone ever see what she ****ing does to me? Do not call me a damn fag. She's invincible!

 

[NothingToSeeHere]

It is not ok for women to hit men, it is not ok for anyone to hit anyone.

The whole "men can't hit women but women can hit men" concept is a hangover from the past where women where considered weak, fragile, generally pathetic and useless, and it should stay in the past.

You should not "sit there and let it happen" you should make it very clear that her behaviour is completely unacceptable, and raise the issue with whoever has the authority to act on it.

 

[clg114]

It is not ok for women to hit men, it is not ok for anyone to hit anyone.

The whole "men can't hit women but women can hit men" concept is a hangover from the past where women where considered weak, fragile, generally pathetic and useless, and it should stay in the past.

You should not "sit there and let it happen" you should make it very clear that her behaviour is completely unacceptable, and raise the issue with whoever has the authority to act on it.

I agree 100%. In fact I was going to say just that, but you beat me to it. Well said.

 

[Tom]

Why are you talking about this subject?

Are you in a actual situation where you physically struck by females while under some restraint not to defend yourself?

Or is this a hypothetical discussion?

 

[Inator]

Bully classmates are bad. But no, not hypothetical

 

[Tom]

I would suggest working on a verbal response. If the negative behavior on their part is repetitive you should get time to think of a good reply.

Only go physical (with any one) in self defense. Don't get suckered into being the one that gets in trouble.

 

[Judge]

"In both criminal and civil law, "battery" is the intentional touching of, or application of force to, the body of another person in a harmful or offensive manner (and without consent). A battery is often confused with an assault, which is merely the act of threatening a battery, or of placing another in fear or apprehension of an impending and immediate battery. A battery is almost always preceded by an assault, which is why the terms are often used transitionally or combined, as in "assault and battery."

An individual commits a battery if he acts intentionally either to cause a harmful or offensive contact or to cause imminent apprehension of such a contact and a harmful or offensive contact actually occurs. Offenders may face both civil liability and criminal charges for a single act."

http://injury.findlaw.com/torts-and-personal-injuries/battery-basics.html

 

[Mr Allen]

IMO raising a fist to a Woman in ANY situation is completely and utterly wrong on every possible level, even if the Woman deserves a slap, don't do it.

 

[Cali Cat]

I'm old-school and believe a gentleman never strikes a lady. However, if she is not behaving like a lady, a gentleman has the right to ward off her aggressive overtures.

I used to drink a lot, and my first husband and I got into numerous physical altercations, most of which started with me hitting him for not listening to me when I was trying to make a point. He was bigger than me, so he could easily defend himself without actually hitting me. He would wrestle me into a hold until I calmed down, and that would get his attention.

Now, if you are sizable enough, you could do something similar, but my suggestion would be to call the authorities and file formal complaint. I don't your age, but either call the police, or go to the school administration if it is happening on a campus.

 

[paloftoon]

Most of society dictates this whole man/woman thing. What you do as a man is you try to restrain the woman from hitting you if you are strong enough or as other people said call the proper authority. Don't even hit her back.

 

[danielcollins]

Oooh this.. I feel out with basically my whole school because I saw everyone as equal.

If a girl picked a fight with me, she got one. No one told me (ever!) That this isn't socially acceptable.

Although I still disagree and believe in total equality. You should give as good as you get.

 

[Cali Cat]

Oooh this.. I feel out with basically my whole school because I saw everyone as equal.

If a girl picked a fight with me, she got one. No one told me (ever!) That this isn't socially acceptable.

Although I still disagree and believe in total equality. You should give as good as you get.

The problem is equality is a lie. Men and women are not equal. Not all men are equal with all other men, nor are all women equal with each other. This is the cookie-cutter ideal that socialist society tries to foist on the populace in order to further their New World Order agenda.

Common sense dictates that if a person is attacking you, you defend yourself, but only to the extent necessary to prevent harm to your person. If you are twice the size, and have twice the strength, you don't use your full force against that person unless you feel your very life is in danger.

If parents and schools still taught boys and girls to be respectful gentlemen and ladies, these issues wouldn't even be so prevalent.

 

[danielcollins]

The problem is equality is a lie. Men and women are not equal. Not all men are equal with all other men, nor are all women equal with each other. This is the cookie-cutter ideal that socialist society tries to foist on the populace in order to further their New World Order agenda.

Common sense dictates that if a person is attacking you, you defend yourself, but only to the extent necessary to prevent harm to your person. If you are twice the size, and have twice the strength, you don't use your full force against that person unless you feel your very life is in danger.

If parents and schools still taught boys and girls to be respectful gentlemen and ladies, these issues wouldn't even be so prevalent.

Oh I agree, I'm not condoning violence. I never started a fight, I just wanted to be left alone.

But at the time I didn't understand these concepts, these are things I learned as an adult. Social normals that aren't taught.

 

[Judge]

Common sense dictates that if a person is attacking you, you defend yourself, but only to the extent necessary to prevent harm to your person. If you are twice the size, and have twice the strength, you don't use your full force against that person unless you feel your very life is in danger.

That pretty much describes the local legal environment I live in. And that it is perception of whether your life is in danger or not that seems to prevail with our courts. Where one can use lethal force to defend themselves if such perception can be substantiated.

And that the person who initiates battery or an assault is the one more likely to go to jail.

Simple point: As an adult of either gender, your lashing out at anyone physically can cost you a little...or everything you have.

 

[nowwhat]

The problem is equality is a lie. Men and women are not equal. Not all men are equal with all other men, nor are all women equal with each other. This is the cookie-cutter ideal that socialist society tries to foist on the populace in order to further their New World Order agenda.

Common sense dictates that if a person is attacking you, you defend yourself, but only to the extent necessary to prevent harm to your person. If you are twice the size, and have twice the strength, you don't use your full force against that person unless you feel your very life is in danger.

If parents and schools still taught boys and girls to be respectful gentlemen and ladies, these issues wouldn't even be so prevalent.

THIS

I have no problem with making men and women equal, in terms of pay, rights, merit, etc. And we have come a very long way, at least on paper in regards to this. What is idiotic, is that some people don't know the difference between making things equal, and trying to make men and women THE SAME. We are not the same, thank God, and cannot be made that way. Vive la difference!

So, if a woman hits me, it is avoid, defend, authorities. If a man hits me, it's a fight.

 

[paloftoon]

Oooh this.. I feel out with basically my whole school because I saw everyone as equal.

If a girl picked a fight with me, she got one. No one told me (ever!) That this isn't socially acceptable.

Although I still disagree and believe in total equality. You should give as good as you get.

School, and well depending on the school, context, environment, and culture of the community, all of these complex factors will help determine if said set of actions are considered "acceptable" or not. When you're a child or in a K-12 environment can be treated and dealt with very differently than being an adult too. Adults tend to have to follow the social norms that much more under normal circumstances.

 

[Cosmophylla]

Yes, overall I am a pretty passive guy, however, if a woman hits me for not obeying what she says, don't expect I am going to just sit there and let it happen. Really, I already have my own issues, and really, this would be the straw that breaks the camel's back. Does not anyone ever see what she ****ing does to me? Do not call me a damn fag. She's invincible!

Who is doing this to you? Are you able to dissociate yourself from her? You can also report her to authorities.

 

[Zarazai]

Personally, if they were a friend and just joking and being silly, I wouldn't think anything of it. If it were someone I didn't know or someone looking to pick a fight, I would let them throw the first hit and then fight back. Gender not mattering in that situation. When it comes to school, I have no idea what other schools may be like, but I stopped respecting and going to school administrators a long time ago when it came to stuff like this. They're almost 90% of the time friends with the offenders, and 100% of the time will take their side and give you a harsher punishment. This may not be the best advice or the smartest, but if someone attacks you, you attack back.

 

[Maelstrom]

Sometimes stupid girls hit boys they like too!

 

[AspieOtaku]

Its not ok for women to hit men, unless its self defense. There are women who beat men because they know that men are not to hit back and take advantage of it and get abusive. When a woman is beating me I fold over and let her keep beating me, even if it means serious injuries I will not hit back. I have been a male victim of domestic as well as mental and sexual abuse, i never got help and it has destroyed my life.