SUM1
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Hi I'm SUM1.
Upon initally joining this forum, and especially after making certain topics about things I thought would get almost entirely same-sided replies, I've come to notice that autism really is more diverse than I thought it was.
I have a diagnosis of Asperger's and it was me who went out to get it because I was so sure I had it after reading the symptoms. On a side note I also have diagnosed social phobia.
However there are several questions which still bother me to this day, and I really would like to find answers on them:
• Why is autism separated on such an extreme that while some Aspies have incredible intelligence and high IQs, some autistics have incredibly low IQs and low intelligence or learning difficulties like dyslexia? Why is there almost no in between as well?
• It was my assumption that autistic people's logical and black and white reasoning would lead them do deduce that there is no divine being due to all the laws of physics it would break, but my Do You Believe In God? topic received incredibly varied answers. Why is this and does it mean autism or Aspergers doesn't always lead to black and white thinking, and if so, then what is it that makes my thinking so robotic? Does it have a name?
• This may sound strange but I notice in early picture of me, my head, the brain case, was much wider than my sister's and even my mother, like literally my ears pointed outwards at the top because my head was in the way, and I thought this could have had a link to how I am, since the temporal and parietal lobes are situated in the widest region and parts of them manage long-term memory storage, from what I looked up. But I've noticed a lot of people diagnosed with Asperger's don't have this, instead having rather 'long' heads, which I had in the past associated with neurotypical people but can no longer do so for this very reason.
• I've noticed tonnes, too many people with Aspergers or autism who seem to display so much empathy online, despite lack of empathy being a defining characteristic of ASD. I know most people want to 'be nice', but there's a clear difference between 'being nice' and actually having empathy, one of which is meant and the other not. I'm obviously not going round offending people (despite sometimes accidentally doing so) but I would find it incredibly cringey displaying so much emotion online despite how I feel about a person, and I've seen such warming messages being posted which even though I recognise are nice I could never do so myself purely because it gives me, the best way to describe it is a feeling of incredible cringe.
Some more oddities about me, I have what's apparently called 'perfect pitch' which means I can identify any note, sometimes up to 7 keys at a time, just by hearing them, and I know the keys of songs and names of chords from hearing them.
I also know the digits of pi to roughly 200 places, but my highest was around 440.
I've gained series of obsessions on completely unrelated things which has meant I have knowledge of every country in the world, every capital, except like 3 Pacific or Caribbean ones, most current and Presidents or kings, historical states, ethnic groups (especially including genetic haplogroups), linguistic families and their locations, numbers of speakers and languages, and national anthems (memorising several ones off by heart).
And apart from world studies, models of planes, plane crashes including dates, death tolls and causes,
animal species and especially extinct Homo species, anatomical knowledge such as functions of hormones and various diseases knowledge.
I'm 17 by the way.
I also had an obsession with longest words in English when I was 7, leading me to have memorised most of them and having people at school come up to me asking me to say them.
That aside, the things which characterise me as Aspergic include my reactions to social environments, which although I sometimes understand, I cannot partake in, having limited eye contact, almost no facial expression, clumsy posture and dislike of constant sarcasm. I notice when I talk my jaw tends to shift from side to side left and right without me even controlling it, I don't know why. I have fine motor deficiencies I conclude because my finger movements, my handwriting, and sometimes my gait, are especially clumsy. I much prefer to type than handwrite, which I do so much quicker.
I also did a personality test (the Myers-Briggs I think it's called) and although a while ago I was an INTP, I'm now an INTJ. But even so, I'm noticing INTJs displaying startlingly different characteristics to me, even though we share the same personality supposedly.
Now that having been said I want to know what all of the above makes me, and I would like answers to the questions above; why I've noticed that many others, even with the same diagnosis of Asperger's, don't always tend to have this kind of thinking and have so much empathy, despite the opposite of these things being defining characteristics of ASD.
Thanks.
Upon initally joining this forum, and especially after making certain topics about things I thought would get almost entirely same-sided replies, I've come to notice that autism really is more diverse than I thought it was.
I have a diagnosis of Asperger's and it was me who went out to get it because I was so sure I had it after reading the symptoms. On a side note I also have diagnosed social phobia.
However there are several questions which still bother me to this day, and I really would like to find answers on them:
• Why is autism separated on such an extreme that while some Aspies have incredible intelligence and high IQs, some autistics have incredibly low IQs and low intelligence or learning difficulties like dyslexia? Why is there almost no in between as well?
• It was my assumption that autistic people's logical and black and white reasoning would lead them do deduce that there is no divine being due to all the laws of physics it would break, but my Do You Believe In God? topic received incredibly varied answers. Why is this and does it mean autism or Aspergers doesn't always lead to black and white thinking, and if so, then what is it that makes my thinking so robotic? Does it have a name?
• This may sound strange but I notice in early picture of me, my head, the brain case, was much wider than my sister's and even my mother, like literally my ears pointed outwards at the top because my head was in the way, and I thought this could have had a link to how I am, since the temporal and parietal lobes are situated in the widest region and parts of them manage long-term memory storage, from what I looked up. But I've noticed a lot of people diagnosed with Asperger's don't have this, instead having rather 'long' heads, which I had in the past associated with neurotypical people but can no longer do so for this very reason.
• I've noticed tonnes, too many people with Aspergers or autism who seem to display so much empathy online, despite lack of empathy being a defining characteristic of ASD. I know most people want to 'be nice', but there's a clear difference between 'being nice' and actually having empathy, one of which is meant and the other not. I'm obviously not going round offending people (despite sometimes accidentally doing so) but I would find it incredibly cringey displaying so much emotion online despite how I feel about a person, and I've seen such warming messages being posted which even though I recognise are nice I could never do so myself purely because it gives me, the best way to describe it is a feeling of incredible cringe.
Some more oddities about me, I have what's apparently called 'perfect pitch' which means I can identify any note, sometimes up to 7 keys at a time, just by hearing them, and I know the keys of songs and names of chords from hearing them.
I also know the digits of pi to roughly 200 places, but my highest was around 440.
I've gained series of obsessions on completely unrelated things which has meant I have knowledge of every country in the world, every capital, except like 3 Pacific or Caribbean ones, most current and Presidents or kings, historical states, ethnic groups (especially including genetic haplogroups), linguistic families and their locations, numbers of speakers and languages, and national anthems (memorising several ones off by heart).
And apart from world studies, models of planes, plane crashes including dates, death tolls and causes,
animal species and especially extinct Homo species, anatomical knowledge such as functions of hormones and various diseases knowledge.
I'm 17 by the way.
I also had an obsession with longest words in English when I was 7, leading me to have memorised most of them and having people at school come up to me asking me to say them.
That aside, the things which characterise me as Aspergic include my reactions to social environments, which although I sometimes understand, I cannot partake in, having limited eye contact, almost no facial expression, clumsy posture and dislike of constant sarcasm. I notice when I talk my jaw tends to shift from side to side left and right without me even controlling it, I don't know why. I have fine motor deficiencies I conclude because my finger movements, my handwriting, and sometimes my gait, are especially clumsy. I much prefer to type than handwrite, which I do so much quicker.
I also did a personality test (the Myers-Briggs I think it's called) and although a while ago I was an INTP, I'm now an INTJ. But even so, I'm noticing INTJs displaying startlingly different characteristics to me, even though we share the same personality supposedly.
Now that having been said I want to know what all of the above makes me, and I would like answers to the questions above; why I've noticed that many others, even with the same diagnosis of Asperger's, don't always tend to have this kind of thinking and have so much empathy, despite the opposite of these things being defining characteristics of ASD.
Thanks.