It’s something I can understand in light forms but I just don’t get it. At the end of the day, to me it IS sort of a way to have a dig at someone in a “socially acceptable” manner.
Tonight, I was playing a game with a few folks... now, two of the people there kept trying to “banter” with me. They’d say “aw that’s a poor answer” or “come on that’s not a valid answer” and i’d be thinking “ok, what is your problem, why are you targeting me with this?”.
I of course was defensive and highly sensitive. Banter is not and never has been something that I can handle or “get”.
I have and always will see it as a subtle dig at people that you have grievances with or dislike somewhat. I would love to be able to comprehend it in the NT way.. but I cannot see this happening.
Does anyone have any strategies to deflect it or potentially stop it? Usually my responses just lead to more.
Tonight, I was playing a game with a few folks... now, two of the people there kept trying to “banter” with me. They’d say “aw that’s a poor answer” or “come on that’s not a valid answer” and i’d be thinking “ok, what is your problem, why are you targeting me with this?”.
I of course was defensive and highly sensitive. Banter is not and never has been something that I can handle or “get”.
I have and always will see it as a subtle dig at people that you have grievances with or dislike somewhat. I would love to be able to comprehend it in the NT way.. but I cannot see this happening.
Does anyone have any strategies to deflect it or potentially stop it? Usually my responses just lead to more.
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