I know some people can act like rat-bags to everyone and I can rule them out if they treat me bad, as they treat many others bad.
I liked to meet new people, last year I met what I thought was a nice man who played me for a fool. I think his behaviour can be put in the rat-bag category, though.
He does treat others nice though.
So, is that just me, classing him as a rat-bag, to rule him out, making excuses? so I can stop hurting from the way he treated me, and it's an ideal excuse as I tried to figure out why he treated me bad, he won't tell me.
What bothers me is that I find that nice mild mannered people can also lose respect for me and this is very disheartening.
I need some encouragement as I am starting to lose confidence in meeting new people, and obviously want to avoid loneliness through fear of being mis-treated, as many, not just the people with rat-bag characteristics, have mis treated me.
Even third parties, on more than one occasion, have commented that people do not treat me very nice.
Help appreciated as I am losing confidence, at my late time of life, 55 years.
I just want love, I don't mean the romantic love, although if a suitable respectful person came along, I would not rule it out, I mean love, as in respect and caring about me, as I feel many people, even nice ones, don't care.
I liked to meet new people, last year I met what I thought was a nice man who played me for a fool. I think his behaviour can be put in the rat-bag category, though.
He does treat others nice though.
So, is that just me, classing him as a rat-bag, to rule him out, making excuses? so I can stop hurting from the way he treated me, and it's an ideal excuse as I tried to figure out why he treated me bad, he won't tell me.
What bothers me is that I find that nice mild mannered people can also lose respect for me and this is very disheartening.
I need some encouragement as I am starting to lose confidence in meeting new people, and obviously want to avoid loneliness through fear of being mis-treated, as many, not just the people with rat-bag characteristics, have mis treated me.
Even third parties, on more than one occasion, have commented that people do not treat me very nice.
Help appreciated as I am losing confidence, at my late time of life, 55 years.
I just want love, I don't mean the romantic love, although if a suitable respectful person came along, I would not rule it out, I mean love, as in respect and caring about me, as I feel many people, even nice ones, don't care.