Kit
Well-Known Member
I posted this at Wrongplanet but I think I didn't word it well so here goes again:
This happened when I was in high school when all of a sudden my family started getting mad at me for being anxious and having anxiety and whenever I would get upset and they started leaving more messes and it seemed like everyone in my house got more defiant so that gave me more stress and anxiety and they said I changed, not them. If I truly changed, it was because they changed first and that reflected me so that made me change too because of the stress and anxiety they were giving me and I always act worse when under lot of stress and that seems normal for those with an ASD.
My husband knows I have money anxiety so when we were expecting our first child, he decided to start spending money when I told him we needed to save for the baby and he wouldn't listen to me and I couldn't understand why was he doing this to me and going against my wishes about our finances and I asked him what was wrong with him and why did he change and he told me I changed.
Has this sort of thing happened to anyone? Where someone all of a sudden acts different towards you and they no longer seem supportive or understanding so when you point this out to them how they have changed, they said you're the one who has.
This happened when I was in high school when all of a sudden my family started getting mad at me for being anxious and having anxiety and whenever I would get upset and they started leaving more messes and it seemed like everyone in my house got more defiant so that gave me more stress and anxiety and they said I changed, not them. If I truly changed, it was because they changed first and that reflected me so that made me change too because of the stress and anxiety they were giving me and I always act worse when under lot of stress and that seems normal for those with an ASD.
My husband knows I have money anxiety so when we were expecting our first child, he decided to start spending money when I told him we needed to save for the baby and he wouldn't listen to me and I couldn't understand why was he doing this to me and going against my wishes about our finances and I asked him what was wrong with him and why did he change and he told me I changed.
Has this sort of thing happened to anyone? Where someone all of a sudden acts different towards you and they no longer seem supportive or understanding so when you point this out to them how they have changed, they said you're the one who has.