I am wondering what you thought of yourselves before you knew you had autism?
I was born into a religious family, so around 12, I was sure I was evil. The meltdowns were scary and I interpreted them through my religious beliefs. This was a huge burden for a kid and everyone kept telling me to give it to God and he would take. He sure did not take and did not even let me know what the trouble was!
After that a shrink convinced me that there was no god and that I was just mentally ill. Then a lot more shrinks said I was mental and I had so many dx's that some even contradicted one another. It got to be absurd. No single person could have the number of dx's I had. It was a joke.
Then I came full circle and thought there was a God again and he clearly hates me. No way that I would have gone through everything I did and there NOT be a god behind. Some seemed perfectly engineered to torment an autie, weird things, and the hits just kept coming with zero down time between them.
Then when I was Dxed it was as much a huge existential kick to the gut as it was a light going on.
Now I just assume I was horribly, horribly unlucky and about to find my place among those in the vast past who suffered.
Nothing special, not remembered, the nameless, trillions of people who have touched this planet for a second and died.
I was born into a religious family, so around 12, I was sure I was evil. The meltdowns were scary and I interpreted them through my religious beliefs. This was a huge burden for a kid and everyone kept telling me to give it to God and he would take. He sure did not take and did not even let me know what the trouble was!
After that a shrink convinced me that there was no god and that I was just mentally ill. Then a lot more shrinks said I was mental and I had so many dx's that some even contradicted one another. It got to be absurd. No single person could have the number of dx's I had. It was a joke.
Then I came full circle and thought there was a God again and he clearly hates me. No way that I would have gone through everything I did and there NOT be a god behind. Some seemed perfectly engineered to torment an autie, weird things, and the hits just kept coming with zero down time between them.
Then when I was Dxed it was as much a huge existential kick to the gut as it was a light going on.
Now I just assume I was horribly, horribly unlucky and about to find my place among those in the vast past who suffered.
Nothing special, not remembered, the nameless, trillions of people who have touched this planet for a second and died.