I think I come across as being creepy sometimes, especially around women , it is probably because i’m not that attractive.
When I get into these situations I learn that they are not appropriate and don’t repeat it again, but I don’t know how to fix the issues at the moment that they occur. Here are a few examples:
1. Walking behind women alone at night and not knowing how to act.
2. Looking at people’s Facebook and accidentally hitting the “add friend” button. Then seeing them acting oddly around me, when I see them in public.
3. Asking someone where they live - not because I want to go to their house, but because I am interested in their accent or geography and want to see what area their accent is from. Some people i’ve asked this and they’ve got offended. I don’t know what to say.
4. Not picking up that someone doesn’t want to speak to me for a while afterwards e.g continually messaging someone about school, getting replies , but no contact from them and only realising that they don’t want to speak to me after thinking about it.
5. Doing something inappropriate and then raising it again to try and apologise, then having the person react negatively.
I have done a lot of things like this that are inappropriate, I always feel bad afterwards. I want to apologise because I don’t have any ill intentions but I feel that this would make the situations worse?
I feel that I naturally come across as Creepy because of my posture, looks and anxiety.
When I get into these situations I learn that they are not appropriate and don’t repeat it again, but I don’t know how to fix the issues at the moment that they occur. Here are a few examples:
1. Walking behind women alone at night and not knowing how to act.
2. Looking at people’s Facebook and accidentally hitting the “add friend” button. Then seeing them acting oddly around me, when I see them in public.
3. Asking someone where they live - not because I want to go to their house, but because I am interested in their accent or geography and want to see what area their accent is from. Some people i’ve asked this and they’ve got offended. I don’t know what to say.
4. Not picking up that someone doesn’t want to speak to me for a while afterwards e.g continually messaging someone about school, getting replies , but no contact from them and only realising that they don’t want to speak to me after thinking about it.
5. Doing something inappropriate and then raising it again to try and apologise, then having the person react negatively.
I have done a lot of things like this that are inappropriate, I always feel bad afterwards. I want to apologise because I don’t have any ill intentions but I feel that this would make the situations worse?
I feel that I naturally come across as Creepy because of my posture, looks and anxiety.
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