Hi, help me

[lunarious]

Hi,

I'm ASD diagnosed and i need help to set my Borders. I'm banned everywhere online and offline, luclkily as a sign of Autism forums generosity i can post here.. (though i live in a house from government). I'm Muslim, e.g. it is Ramadan now so Islam rules must be observed.

I seek refuge from Satan, In God's name, Allah's Word:
As for the faithless, their works are like a mirage in a plain, which the thirsty man supposes to be water. When he comes to it, he finds it to be nothing; but there he finds Allah, who will pay him his full account, and Allah is swift at reckoning.

I apologize, and ... what do you think about this? If you get to know me you'll find brief Truths and experiences, maybe like any ASD.

 

[Tired]

. I'm banned everywhere online and offline

What are you banned for?

 

[lunarious]

What are you banned for?

Banned for "not restraining myself". For being Spirit, like the movie.

 

[tree]

Is "not restraining myself" related to
not following the rules of places?

 

[lunarious]

Is "not restraining myself" related to
not following the rules of places?

Yes and yet no.

The explanation is i've followed my ideals and obeyed my God. The Muslim God, Allah. Everyone not Muslim believe in One Creator.., so I've followed the supreme OverLords rules, and Societies rules also to a big extent.

You have two "Lords". Society and Allah. Edit: God is one.

 

[thejuice]

Life is a negotiation. Sounds like you don't compromise?

 

[lunarious]

Yes ... are you Muslim?

Edit: my opening

I'm ASD diagnosed and i need help to set my Borders. I'm banned everywhere online and offline, lu...

Edit2: You're right, life is about compromise (note to self Qur'an Ghafir)

 

[Tired]

Everyone not Muslim believe in One Creator

No, there is a tone of other religions, which believe in other things, and not just one creator. There are also people who, as you said about yourself, "do not restrain themselves" with faith, they're free, like Spirits.

And yes, if you want to easier find support and friends here, you'll need to learn to coexist with all those different people.

 

[lunarious]

We can agree you do not Force me, and I do not Force you. And that "God" is Merciful and "God" is Vengful.

edit: And i'll not use 3rd factor as God against you, nor you use 3rd factor against me.

In my Tradition which is Islam, we have certain duties, Christianity has another set of duties. ... I do try to be at peace myself, like you. Because you are ASD right?

 

[lunarious]

No, there is a tone of other religions, which believe in other things, and not just one creator. There are also people who, as you said about yourself, "do not restrain themselves" with faith, they're free, like Spirits.

This is a misunderstanding .... I don't know how to describe my relationship concernin faith.

What do you think is faith?

 

[Tired]

We can agree you do not Force me, and I do not Force you. And that "God" is Merciful and "God" is Vengful.

edit: And i'll not use 3rd factor as God against you, nor you use 3rd factor against me.

In my Tradition which is Islam, we have certain duties, Christianity has another set of duties. ... I do try to be at peace myself, like you. Because you are ASD right?

I'm actually neuro-typical, but mostly everyone here is ASD, yes.

 

[Storm Hess]

In my opinion, keeping one's religion to one's self is a great help to establish friendships. I do not believe in god...but I would never push someone away for their belief. However, I would push them away if that person kept trying to push their beliefs upon me. I would not push my atheism upon someone of faith, I would expect the same in return.

 

[Tom]

But yes, nearly all here, like 95% have ASD.

It's ok to talk (politely) about religion in this religion sub-forum. We try very hard to keep things friendly here, a place where people with autism can be more themselves (not masking).

But it would be best not to bring religion in the other forum areas which are for talking about autism, music, whatever.

Like me, currently I am reading up on staphylinid rove beetles. Fascinating little insects and fairly helpful to people in the environment.

 

[lunarious]

When i registered here for the first time, i asked for help ... this is my account so i remember, not least because of me including the video of Spirit above while being bullied by certain people

I remember it vividly when i read it
@tree

I won't discuss

 

[lunarious]

No, there is a tone of other religions, which believe in other things, and not just one creator. There are also people who, as you said about yourself, "do not restrain themselves" with faith, they're free, like Spirits.

And yes, if you want to easier find support and friends here, you'll need to learn to coexist with all those different people.

Hehe ... you're not funny

I can't find where i said that. Where?
Edit: I searched after "with faith" and got 3 results (now 4) and they are all your fabrication.
Edit2: @Tired maybe some hacker is framing you against me

 

[Mr. Stevens]

Hi,

I'm ASD diagnosed and i need help to set my Borders. I'm banned everywhere online and offline, luclkily as a sign of Autism forums generosity i can post here.. (though i live in a house from government). I'm Muslim, e.g. it is Ramadan now so Islam rules must be observed.


I apologize, and ... what do you think about this? If you get to know me you'll find brief Truths and experiences, maybe like any ASD.

Great quote. Illusion does much harm, and many people follow illusion. We all fall for this at some time, unfortunately.

I think you make a great addition to the site. I like your passion and you post interesting quotes and thoughts. The truth you have to share will be best received in the appropriate places, like these threads. But, don't feel bad. Many people here have trouble with boundaries.

 

[lunarious]

This person "mr. K" is appointed over me. He did't see it. I wonder what he was thinking while the following happened.

We sat at balcony, and it was raining, so we compared our sight of the rain. The rain was not Hard BTW.

Mr. K said the rain is not visible "here", yet it is visible "here". I told him, that's because you have a dark background, a tree, behind the rain so you can see the rain at daylight. Unlike the orher "here" where you get blinded by the light looking deep into the Universe..

 

[DrBadStrings]

Hehe ... you're not funny

I can't find where i said that. Where?
Edit: I searched after "with faith" and got 3 results (now 4) and they are all your fabrication.
Edit2: @Tired maybe some hacker is framing you against me

The user @Tired is correct that there are plenty of other users on this forum who believe in many different religions. Some are pantheists believing in multiple gods, some monotheists, some agnostics, some atheists. Some don't even care to put a label on themselves as they simply don't want to bother with the idea of religion.

I won't get into my own views other than to say I'm not part of the trilogy, Judaism/Christianity/Islam. I mean no disrespect in calling it that, it's my own term when talking about the group due to the fact that all three and their sub-branches all believe in the same god but disagree on prophets, and obviously many other points but at the root of it all, it's literally the same God they are praying to.

As for your initial question about help with boundaries I would think first you need to clearly identify them for yourself. And then it becomes situational in that with different people, and different topics you'll have to set different boundaries in different ways. This is where a psychologist, or social worker can be really helpful. I know the work I've done with my own Social Worker has helped and they've been able to help me create specific strategies for dealing with specific NT's in my life.