Hello all,
My name is Penny and I'm a 32 year old female. I've always known something was off about me but overtime equated it to environmental issues. (Upbringing, unstable parents, choices, etc.) I have a very hard time putting what I feel or think into words. In my brain I can put things together eloquently and efficiently, but if I have to (or want to) express it, I can't. I spend forever fixing my sentence formatting or anticipating the impact of what I'm about to write. 9 times out of 10 I delete what I've typed and move on. So bare with me here.
I have no formal diagnosis of ASD. However, I watched a video on youtube this past Sunday about girls with autism and I've been attempting to cope with what I've learned since then. (Not too well.) The girls in the video were just like me, the things they said could have came from my own mouth/brain. I started my mega research on it. (This is what I do for sport, research random things constantly.) This article explained me perfectly. All this searching I've done for a cause of my ailments that I could never explain properly was put together right there.
Females and Aspergers: A checklist
At first I was excited that I think I had found out what's wrong with me. I knew something was wrong, it wasn't just my failure to adapt or mesh with society, etc etc. But now, I realize I'm just a robot who has pretended all these years to "act right". I am a damn good chameleon, to the point where I had my own self fooled. Now all these tics and anxiety habits I had learned to overcome have come back with a vengeance. No one around me would know the difference because I've hid this all so well over the years. I am a cute female, if I say or do something profound I get a pat on the back. If I do or say something stupid, I can laugh it off like I'm just a ditz. I've just learned to blend. I have no substance. I just analyze, create rules and act accordingly.
I had a quick conversation with my husband about what I've read about ASD and that I think it applies to me. I had him read a few things and he just blew me off. I don't even know if it really matters if I had an official diagnosis. I've gone this far in life this way and I don't want anyone to treat me differently.
I honestly don't know why I'm even writing this out here. Maybe just to vent to other who may understand.
My name is Penny and I'm a 32 year old female. I've always known something was off about me but overtime equated it to environmental issues. (Upbringing, unstable parents, choices, etc.) I have a very hard time putting what I feel or think into words. In my brain I can put things together eloquently and efficiently, but if I have to (or want to) express it, I can't. I spend forever fixing my sentence formatting or anticipating the impact of what I'm about to write. 9 times out of 10 I delete what I've typed and move on. So bare with me here.
I have no formal diagnosis of ASD. However, I watched a video on youtube this past Sunday about girls with autism and I've been attempting to cope with what I've learned since then. (Not too well.) The girls in the video were just like me, the things they said could have came from my own mouth/brain. I started my mega research on it. (This is what I do for sport, research random things constantly.) This article explained me perfectly. All this searching I've done for a cause of my ailments that I could never explain properly was put together right there.
Females and Aspergers: A checklist
At first I was excited that I think I had found out what's wrong with me. I knew something was wrong, it wasn't just my failure to adapt or mesh with society, etc etc. But now, I realize I'm just a robot who has pretended all these years to "act right". I am a damn good chameleon, to the point where I had my own self fooled. Now all these tics and anxiety habits I had learned to overcome have come back with a vengeance. No one around me would know the difference because I've hid this all so well over the years. I am a cute female, if I say or do something profound I get a pat on the back. If I do or say something stupid, I can laugh it off like I'm just a ditz. I've just learned to blend. I have no substance. I just analyze, create rules and act accordingly.
I had a quick conversation with my husband about what I've read about ASD and that I think it applies to me. I had him read a few things and he just blew me off. I don't even know if it really matters if I had an official diagnosis. I've gone this far in life this way and I don't want anyone to treat me differently.
I honestly don't know why I'm even writing this out here. Maybe just to vent to other who may understand.