Hi my son is wonderfull and oh yes by the way he has asd ! always say that should be the second or last or thing that is mentioned or not mentioned ! as it is not the most interesting thing about someone ..or that is the mentality that should prevail . Good to be part of the community my son is 20 now and has not left the house for the past 7 years ....
there was some help from the professionals when he was diagnosed but to no avail. I refuse to put him on medication (experience of this with friends who have asd and have had meds is not good)and as fully grown man I let him make his own decisions and he does not want meds.He says he is very happy but I worry as it is only me and we have no other family at all unfortunately his father has asd and his family have disowned him and I try to educate them on it but they do not want to know. anyway I just fear when I am gone will they put my son in adult care?
He gets by at home with me but obviously as he can not go out he is reliant on me for things that require going outside (ok these days a lot can be done on line) but things like if he were ill etc he would rather die at home than go out to a hospital etc. I guess you would say he is mid functioning autism if there is such a thing.He can have a very intelligent conversation but with strangers would not talk or will run away.Worry how he will cope when I am gone...
I am fifty and in good health so far but you never know what is around the the corner.I worry so much one thing people can take advantage of him but also if he is overwhelmed he can throw things sometimes what if he were to hurt someone unintentionaly is he protected? would they lock him up? I love my son a lot but I worry a lot also ..if I could protect him from beyond the grave believe me I would !
there was some help from the professionals when he was diagnosed but to no avail. I refuse to put him on medication (experience of this with friends who have asd and have had meds is not good)and as fully grown man I let him make his own decisions and he does not want meds.He says he is very happy but I worry as it is only me and we have no other family at all unfortunately his father has asd and his family have disowned him and I try to educate them on it but they do not want to know. anyway I just fear when I am gone will they put my son in adult care?
He gets by at home with me but obviously as he can not go out he is reliant on me for things that require going outside (ok these days a lot can be done on line) but things like if he were ill etc he would rather die at home than go out to a hospital etc. I guess you would say he is mid functioning autism if there is such a thing.He can have a very intelligent conversation but with strangers would not talk or will run away.Worry how he will cope when I am gone...
I am fifty and in good health so far but you never know what is around the the corner.I worry so much one thing people can take advantage of him but also if he is overwhelmed he can throw things sometimes what if he were to hurt someone unintentionaly is he protected? would they lock him up? I love my son a lot but I worry a lot also ..if I could protect him from beyond the grave believe me I would !
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