Caveboy90
New Member
Hello,
I am new to this forum and looking for some advice on a few things.
I have been in my relationship for the past 10 years, things have been really good but we get moments where things go severely downhill.
Normally the same issue that comes up...Me.
I tend to not put effort into much these days, things have been getting worse. I am a surface thinker, I can do things that need doing ie do the dishes, go to the shops, so basically anything that needs doing there and then.
Anything else, for instance remembering to show my wife love and affection with anything goes out the window. I just forget. It's almost like it doesnt matter despite her threatening to leave me.
I dont suggest for us to do anything together, its almost like normal life is enough for me and I dont need anything extra.
Im also finding recently I am liking time by myself alot, despite working full time and looking after my 3 year old, its not possible.
Its driving me insane as I love my family so much and I would be lost without them. But due to having issues with apathy, I just cant understand why I can't resolve these issues as I want to, I just don't know where to start in my brain.
Its like I need to be constantly reminded of the things that are important. When my wife tells me the things I am doing wrong, I completely understand. But the next day it's as if life goes on and I don't think of it anymore.
Thanks
I am new to this forum and looking for some advice on a few things.
I have been in my relationship for the past 10 years, things have been really good but we get moments where things go severely downhill.
Normally the same issue that comes up...Me.
I tend to not put effort into much these days, things have been getting worse. I am a surface thinker, I can do things that need doing ie do the dishes, go to the shops, so basically anything that needs doing there and then.
Anything else, for instance remembering to show my wife love and affection with anything goes out the window. I just forget. It's almost like it doesnt matter despite her threatening to leave me.
I dont suggest for us to do anything together, its almost like normal life is enough for me and I dont need anything extra.
Im also finding recently I am liking time by myself alot, despite working full time and looking after my 3 year old, its not possible.
Its driving me insane as I love my family so much and I would be lost without them. But due to having issues with apathy, I just cant understand why I can't resolve these issues as I want to, I just don't know where to start in my brain.
Its like I need to be constantly reminded of the things that are important. When my wife tells me the things I am doing wrong, I completely understand. But the next day it's as if life goes on and I don't think of it anymore.
Thanks