AMANDA DESIREE WILSON
Active Member
I was born in 1956. Back then, doctors were not that smart. As a child, I had unexpected rages. There was no help for children like me. My father's response initially was to spank me with his hands on my pants. But it got worse. Eventually, even a leather belt wasn't enough. I got abused a lot. When I was nine, I was sent away to an institution where I was physically, emotionally, and sexually abused. I spent two years there. When I came home, the abuse continued. At the age of seventeen, I was sent away again. I went to college for six years. When I was in college at one point in time, I was having problems with stress and the medical staff there gave me tranquillizers without a prescription. I became addicted to them. After I dropped out, I ended up working on my car one day and I exploded. That put me in a maximum security hospital. I have been treated like garbage by the medical faculty.
I have spent my entire life living with Asperger's syndrome. I have few friends, I have never been able to hold down a job, I have been homeless many times, and I have had two drug overdoses. While I was homeless the many times, my parents never lifted a finger to help me. I was living in Vancouver, BC on less than $500 per month. One can of food a day. After my father died, my mother's excuse for my abuse was they didn't know.
Now, I live alone. I have no friends I can see. I live in poverty. I have two brothers who have never suffered anything. My parents helped them. They both have homes, families, and money. Neither one has more than a grade twelve education. They have never lived in poverty. My youngest brother won't even call me.
So I have learned the reality of family. Parents only care about children that have no handicaps. Parents only love children who are born normal. Children who are born with Asperger's will end up living their lives in poverty while their siblings live in luxury.
Unfortunately, I have a nephew with Asperger's. He is lucky sort of. His father never abused him. However, he will never be able to live on his own. He has a brother and sister. They will end up getting married, having a home and a family, and yes, having money. My nephew will have to watch as they live their lives with no worries. He will have to live in poverty. I hope he doesn't end up committing suicide. I wish I could help him but I am not able to have contact with him because of my brother.
So, I hope others have not had these experiences. I just wish that parents would care enough about their children to ensure they do not suffer.
I have spent my entire life living with Asperger's syndrome. I have few friends, I have never been able to hold down a job, I have been homeless many times, and I have had two drug overdoses. While I was homeless the many times, my parents never lifted a finger to help me. I was living in Vancouver, BC on less than $500 per month. One can of food a day. After my father died, my mother's excuse for my abuse was they didn't know.
Now, I live alone. I have no friends I can see. I live in poverty. I have two brothers who have never suffered anything. My parents helped them. They both have homes, families, and money. Neither one has more than a grade twelve education. They have never lived in poverty. My youngest brother won't even call me.
So I have learned the reality of family. Parents only care about children that have no handicaps. Parents only love children who are born normal. Children who are born with Asperger's will end up living their lives in poverty while their siblings live in luxury.
Unfortunately, I have a nephew with Asperger's. He is lucky sort of. His father never abused him. However, he will never be able to live on his own. He has a brother and sister. They will end up getting married, having a home and a family, and yes, having money. My nephew will have to watch as they live their lives with no worries. He will have to live in poverty. I hope he doesn't end up committing suicide. I wish I could help him but I am not able to have contact with him because of my brother.
So, I hope others have not had these experiences. I just wish that parents would care enough about their children to ensure they do not suffer.