Butterfly-ink210
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In 2016, we were volunteers at our kids' school. We talked every week at lunchroom. He didn't talk to me when his wife was there. There was intense eye contact from the beginning. I felt safe and very comfortable with him and never judged. He couldn't remember my name and he asked several times, finally saying he wasn't good with that. So, he never used my name, even in email. He talked about himself a lot, what he did for the school. He complained that people didn't do their jobs the right way and that the kids just wanted attention. He rarely asked me questions about what I liked or what I did. I was captivated by his attention, charm and gentleness.
He always made sure I would be at the next event. I felt drawn to him like a magnet and I quickly became addicted to how he energized me. After 2 1/2 months of friendship, I told him one week that I was glad to see him and he smiled. I asked him to go for a ride in my muscle car and he laughed, making me feel really stupid for asking. Then he patted my shoulder and I did it to him and he did it again. On the way to the car, he said "are you ok, I am concerned about you and I care about you." In the car ride, I told him that I was thinking about him too much and I was afraid of crossing lines. I am married also. I told him he was good-looking, handsome and I was attracted to him and he made me happy and confident. He told me that "it won't be weird between us and we can still be friends". Before he left, we looked at each other and I wanted to kiss him, but I didn't. He told me that he got a job at a school and that we wouldn't see each other as much. This upset me a lot and I told him he couldn't leave me.
Nearly two months later, we were working at a school dance and he didn't approach me. He was in the back of the gym, alone, 4 different times. I figured he was waiting for me so I talked to him for 15 minutes. I rubbed his back and he touched my shoulder twice. We were very close to each other with intense eye contact. Afterwards, I was very happy and I felt like I was going to fall into an affair with him.
Two weeks later, I sent him several emails and he told me he was running the craft fair. I asked him for some info about his freelance photography and I got a response 3 paragraphs long. I decided to show up there with a letter for him. When I did, he wasn't running the fair, but supervising the set up for 3 hours. The school principal was there to oversee our conversation. He was trying to argue that this was over but I convinced him to listen. I gave him the letter, which stated that I fell in love with him with how he touched my heart and also that I quit volunteering because I can't handle seeing him. He said he just wanted to be friends. I offered him $50 to take his wife on date night to smooth things over and he said "I would rather donate that money to the school."
Two weeks later, we met at church, unplanned and we both stopped and stared at each other. We didn't talk, but I felt he read the letter. After this, he was silent for a month.
There is more but I wanted to start with some background.
He always made sure I would be at the next event. I felt drawn to him like a magnet and I quickly became addicted to how he energized me. After 2 1/2 months of friendship, I told him one week that I was glad to see him and he smiled. I asked him to go for a ride in my muscle car and he laughed, making me feel really stupid for asking. Then he patted my shoulder and I did it to him and he did it again. On the way to the car, he said "are you ok, I am concerned about you and I care about you." In the car ride, I told him that I was thinking about him too much and I was afraid of crossing lines. I am married also. I told him he was good-looking, handsome and I was attracted to him and he made me happy and confident. He told me that "it won't be weird between us and we can still be friends". Before he left, we looked at each other and I wanted to kiss him, but I didn't. He told me that he got a job at a school and that we wouldn't see each other as much. This upset me a lot and I told him he couldn't leave me.
Nearly two months later, we were working at a school dance and he didn't approach me. He was in the back of the gym, alone, 4 different times. I figured he was waiting for me so I talked to him for 15 minutes. I rubbed his back and he touched my shoulder twice. We were very close to each other with intense eye contact. Afterwards, I was very happy and I felt like I was going to fall into an affair with him.
Two weeks later, I sent him several emails and he told me he was running the craft fair. I asked him for some info about his freelance photography and I got a response 3 paragraphs long. I decided to show up there with a letter for him. When I did, he wasn't running the fair, but supervising the set up for 3 hours. The school principal was there to oversee our conversation. He was trying to argue that this was over but I convinced him to listen. I gave him the letter, which stated that I fell in love with him with how he touched my heart and also that I quit volunteering because I can't handle seeing him. He said he just wanted to be friends. I offered him $50 to take his wife on date night to smooth things over and he said "I would rather donate that money to the school."
Two weeks later, we met at church, unplanned and we both stopped and stared at each other. We didn't talk, but I felt he read the letter. After this, he was silent for a month.
There is more but I wanted to start with some background.
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