Dan Dan
Im a dog person!
Ok so to cut a long story short, the day after Christmas day 2016 i had my first one night stand. I wont go into to much detail because there's to much to say regarding how it came to happen. I went out, I met a girl (I've met her before she is a freind of a freind) and she came back to my house. Ive had relationships before but this has never happened to me.
In the taxi i was super nervous, not because what was about to happen, but because of all my geek items in my room. My rock collection, my stone sculptures etc. And how immaculate my room is. I thought she'd be put off by everything but she wasn't, she loved my room.
In the morning i woke up first. I just lay next to her thinking how awkward its going to be when she wakes. But it wasn't awkward at all. She rested her head on my shoulder and we started chatting about life and so on, I made her a coffee and she hung out with me for a while and for the first time in a very long time i felt normal, like an actual real human being. Made me realise that being close and intimate with someone is what i crave most in life and i didn't want her to go.
The next day i wore a smile all day thinking about her. How she liked my room, all the things we have in common and she loved my dog which is huge plus because he is like my only family. Then it started to dawn on me that i probably wasn't going to see her again and that it was just a one time thing. I went back to being lonely but this time it was worse. I was feeling isolated and really blue. It was feeling like this that prompted me to join this forum. I never want a one night stand ever again.
Its got me thinking that the reason i cant hold on to a relationship is because of how quickly i get attached. After twelve hours with this girl i was planning a future with her. And i know that is not right and its not a healthy but i cant help it its who i am. But why am i like this? It appears to me that finding someone is hopeless.
In the taxi i was super nervous, not because what was about to happen, but because of all my geek items in my room. My rock collection, my stone sculptures etc. And how immaculate my room is. I thought she'd be put off by everything but she wasn't, she loved my room.
In the morning i woke up first. I just lay next to her thinking how awkward its going to be when she wakes. But it wasn't awkward at all. She rested her head on my shoulder and we started chatting about life and so on, I made her a coffee and she hung out with me for a while and for the first time in a very long time i felt normal, like an actual real human being. Made me realise that being close and intimate with someone is what i crave most in life and i didn't want her to go.
The next day i wore a smile all day thinking about her. How she liked my room, all the things we have in common and she loved my dog which is huge plus because he is like my only family. Then it started to dawn on me that i probably wasn't going to see her again and that it was just a one time thing. I went back to being lonely but this time it was worse. I was feeling isolated and really blue. It was feeling like this that prompted me to join this forum. I never want a one night stand ever again.
Its got me thinking that the reason i cant hold on to a relationship is because of how quickly i get attached. After twelve hours with this girl i was planning a future with her. And i know that is not right and its not a healthy but i cant help it its who i am. But why am i like this? It appears to me that finding someone is hopeless.