Hello all,
I am hoping someone can give me a few tips on helping my niece, she has been diagnosed with Asperger's. She is really awesome and is such a good person but she seems to be very jealous. Amanda is 16 and has not liked my other niece, her cousin, since the day she was born. My son is 8 months and she just loves him to pieces, so it's not just babies in general. When the family gets together, which is pretty often she has shoved, hit and yelled at my 19 month old niece for just walking near her. If the 19 month old cries, Amanda freaks out and gets mad and says really mean things and sometimes she will run up and just hug me or others for 15 minutes after, calming herself. I think it is jealousy because she brings up multiple times in the past when other children have been jealous, and asks why they were jealous and how long it lasts, and brings up when her Mom had held the baby, but only when the 19 month old is around she says these things. I asked her if she was jealous and she said she didn't know and wasn't sure. I believe she may have problems processing envy. I was wondering if anyone has had a child do the same thing or if someone here has similar feelings and something that helped them relax or get over the feelings. I tried to get her to close her eyes, relax and meditate, without success. Thank You!!!
I am hoping someone can give me a few tips on helping my niece, she has been diagnosed with Asperger's. She is really awesome and is such a good person but she seems to be very jealous. Amanda is 16 and has not liked my other niece, her cousin, since the day she was born. My son is 8 months and she just loves him to pieces, so it's not just babies in general. When the family gets together, which is pretty often she has shoved, hit and yelled at my 19 month old niece for just walking near her. If the 19 month old cries, Amanda freaks out and gets mad and says really mean things and sometimes she will run up and just hug me or others for 15 minutes after, calming herself. I think it is jealousy because she brings up multiple times in the past when other children have been jealous, and asks why they were jealous and how long it lasts, and brings up when her Mom had held the baby, but only when the 19 month old is around she says these things. I asked her if she was jealous and she said she didn't know and wasn't sure. I believe she may have problems processing envy. I was wondering if anyone has had a child do the same thing or if someone here has similar feelings and something that helped them relax or get over the feelings. I tried to get her to close her eyes, relax and meditate, without success. Thank You!!!