Gracey
Well-Known Member
In about six hours time, I’m supposed to be at a family soirée to help celebrate Mother’s Day by honouring a ‘mother’ I’m not related to, has just lost her husband, and in an environment and with (some) people I (honestly) can’t stand.
It would mean a lot to Mr Gracey if I went with him.
I’m currently physically ill, so all of my ‘reserves’ are trying to manage fatigue and some discomfort.
Which means there’s little or nothing left for things like filters, gracious scripts, smiling, ignoring snipes, and generally acting the part.
It’s easier (for me) if I don’t go.
I envisage nothing but arguements should my facade slip.
I’m worried I don’t have what it takes to maintain it throughout.
May result in friction if I do go,
May result in bad feeling toward, if I don’t go.
But like I say, it means a lot to someone if I make the effort.
Edited to add,
I’ve already had this conversation in my head and so had already asked the question,
But forgot to write it here.
How do I cope with this gathering ?
It would mean a lot to Mr Gracey if I went with him.
I’m currently physically ill, so all of my ‘reserves’ are trying to manage fatigue and some discomfort.
Which means there’s little or nothing left for things like filters, gracious scripts, smiling, ignoring snipes, and generally acting the part.
It’s easier (for me) if I don’t go.
I envisage nothing but arguements should my facade slip.
I’m worried I don’t have what it takes to maintain it throughout.
May result in friction if I do go,
May result in bad feeling toward, if I don’t go.
But like I say, it means a lot to someone if I make the effort.
Edited to add,
I’ve already had this conversation in my head and so had already asked the question,
But forgot to write it here.
How do I cope with this gathering ?
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