Well this is a very weird topic for me, I dont know how I use humor...
I mean some people say that I am sarcastic and that sometimes I use dark humor, or they even say that I am always using humor to defuse situations.
Like it depends on the setting I would say, but often I was considered like a funny guy at hightschool when I was younger or during vacation camp.
But most of the time, I just think of something and say it, and it comes up as humor for people around me, I have learned that I am using humor without being aware of it.
Like , for instance with my therapist last session, we talked about my psychiatrist tha gave me an appointement in 2019 while I was eager to get an official diagnosis as soon as possible.
And I said to my therapist that the psychiatrist was realy calm and try to confort me saying that eventually someone will give up an appointement before and I said that " yeah someone might die or whatever" and she laughed so I laughed back. But its actually what I was thinking like 1rst degree, i was not trying to be humoristic...
Or another time I was at the gym and the person managing our accounts at the gym told me that every month I had to re register my card each month If I wanted to enter the gym during specific hours ( I never went to the gym again kek) , I told her that if she gave me the log I could do it myself in order to not bother her, she laughted aswell.
Now I know that my "out of place" thinking , is considered as humor, so I put a more humoristic tone to it when I have a weird idea because I know it will be considered as humor , but this is just me thinking actually xD.
Its fun but at the same time well, it dragges yourself down a little because you think that no one will ever take you seriously.
I Think I know how to be considered a bit more serisouly, but , I need to put some effort in it sometimes, while being funny for others is just how I think when I interract with people by default, is that clear ? xDD