I don't know what to say. The me that was avoidant of relationships is not me anymore More recently, like when my spouse is visiting her sister I would avoid doing things by myself. No reason. But anymore I push through anxiety when there are things I really want to do. Like last year at my first track day. I was anxious but said Alan Shepard's prayer, humbled myself, and had a great time.It's so tough for me. The person l care about is hesitant to contact me and l don't know what to do. He is ND. He is anxiety/avoidant so it makes it extremely difficult because l have pretty much the same traits which means we scale the Great Wall of China. I need him to contact me instead of leaving me in the contact suit only.
If you were to take that step to contact him, how would he react? Were it me, I would be pleased and happy.