Carnelian
Active Member
How do you handle death in your family or death in your friend's family?
When my father died (two years ago), I was called callous and unsympathetic because I got over it really quickly. While my mother still has to take ambien to get to sleep and my sister stresses out and both are still very upset...I feel almost nothing. In my mind, it happened, it's over, and this is how life is now.
I've never been particularly good at comforting people. I'm better at giving them real-talk like advice or kicking their asses in gear or other things that don't require a hefty dose of sugarcoat and tactfulness.
And I wonder if I'm the only one who has this issue and I'm simply an unfeeling monster because I barely think about my father or miss him or am upset he's gone, or if that is normal among some people.
When my father died (two years ago), I was called callous and unsympathetic because I got over it really quickly. While my mother still has to take ambien to get to sleep and my sister stresses out and both are still very upset...I feel almost nothing. In my mind, it happened, it's over, and this is how life is now.
I've never been particularly good at comforting people. I'm better at giving them real-talk like advice or kicking their asses in gear or other things that don't require a hefty dose of sugarcoat and tactfulness.
And I wonder if I'm the only one who has this issue and I'm simply an unfeeling monster because I barely think about my father or miss him or am upset he's gone, or if that is normal among some people.