I have a lot of sensory issues around food. It's probably the biggest issue for me. I used to have emetophobia and dealt with an eating disorder for a few years. There are still some vestiges of both of those things, but they're pretty much dealt with thanks to a good therapist and healing [some] trauma. That's how I know that this is most definitely a sensory issue and not anything else.
Eating feels like a chore on my best days, and like an enemy on my worst. Chewing, food textures, outside sensory issues that add to the food issues, and eating around other people all contribute to making it feel like torture. I have to watch Youtube or listen to audiobooks/podcasts to get through eating. I don't know when I'm full and either eat too much or stop eating too early.
I go through "good" periods where I'm able to feel normal about my food. This is usually when I'm feeling relaxed and low stress. I can eat a wider variety of foods, I can eat exactly when I'm hungry and know when I'm full. I might still distract myself, but there is more wiggle room. I can distract myself with just music or a friend. Sometimes I can even eat out at a restaurant.
But it gets worse when my anxiety is high, or I experience a big/sudden change. The anticipation leading up to a change and then the change itself makes me more susceptible to meltdowns. In turn, my list of safe foods is shortened. It's difficult to manage. I never know how a day is going to go and if I'm going to eat enough.
What is your experience like with food? How do you cope with the difficulties that come up, if you have any? [edit] How do you expand your list of safe foods? I don't want specific food suggestions, just how you manage your difficulties with food.
Eating feels like a chore on my best days, and like an enemy on my worst. Chewing, food textures, outside sensory issues that add to the food issues, and eating around other people all contribute to making it feel like torture. I have to watch Youtube or listen to audiobooks/podcasts to get through eating. I don't know when I'm full and either eat too much or stop eating too early.
I go through "good" periods where I'm able to feel normal about my food. This is usually when I'm feeling relaxed and low stress. I can eat a wider variety of foods, I can eat exactly when I'm hungry and know when I'm full. I might still distract myself, but there is more wiggle room. I can distract myself with just music or a friend. Sometimes I can even eat out at a restaurant.
But it gets worse when my anxiety is high, or I experience a big/sudden change. The anticipation leading up to a change and then the change itself makes me more susceptible to meltdowns. In turn, my list of safe foods is shortened. It's difficult to manage. I never know how a day is going to go and if I'm going to eat enough.
What is your experience like with food? How do you cope with the difficulties that come up, if you have any? [edit] How do you expand your list of safe foods? I don't want specific food suggestions, just how you manage your difficulties with food.
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