BinkanSalaryman
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Should I even seek for a relationship in such a horrible state? My sister once told me relationship tend to develop best when personal issues are lowest and I think there is a lot of truth to it. On the other hand it might exactly be what I need to find out of misery, dividing pain by sharing secrets and finding a personal shelter, finding a major motivation to keep living life.
If so, what platform could possibly help me find female beings, roughly near my location, sharing interests and while having trouble with life? That's a lot of filters where usual dating websites are really useless. I don't really care about the looks, so the usual swipe-left/right model is no help either. I tried OKCupid for a while which looked like a solution but I got me no real results in the end. Maybe people like me are too shy too and/or face similar problems.
Also please don't tell me to visit a doctor or something. They don't even try pretending to listen to your problems, right before pointing to another institution. I tried getting help before, and every time it was just felt useless or just hurt myself, worsening the situation. I'm glad I still have my grandparents alive actually caring for me when my parents never were there for me since I was born.
Thanks for taking your time.
If so, what platform could possibly help me find female beings, roughly near my location, sharing interests and while having trouble with life? That's a lot of filters where usual dating websites are really useless. I don't really care about the looks, so the usual swipe-left/right model is no help either. I tried OKCupid for a while which looked like a solution but I got me no real results in the end. Maybe people like me are too shy too and/or face similar problems.
Also please don't tell me to visit a doctor or something. They don't even try pretending to listen to your problems, right before pointing to another institution. I tried getting help before, and every time it was just felt useless or just hurt myself, worsening the situation. I'm glad I still have my grandparents alive actually caring for me when my parents never were there for me since I was born.
Thanks for taking your time.