Nemesis_2k7
Nemesis2k7
Let me start by saying, i have had this issue, and this feeling my entire life.
Basically i am a computer nerd / geek / tech guy. I have helped people out with their computers since my early adult years. And 90% of the time i have asked nothing in return. no payment, no nothing. I just wanted to help someone else out. the only time i have asked for money, is when i have needed to put food on the table. Usually i have that covered. So i do it for free.
People are indeed grateful for my "service" and they make lovely comments, the most recent one is "your the best". I felt sheepish to say the least. The one thing i have noticed, is when i need help from these people for a different matter, and i usually have a good reason for needing assistance, (for example, recently had another seizure, and called the woman who's phone i fixed) for assistance, or just someone to be with for an hour or so, as i become terrified after a seizure. And i often forget almost everything. Amnesia for around 2 hours or so. could not even tell you my name. Anyway, i was ignored. I reached out to 2 people who i have recently helped, and i give free internet access too. and one pretended not to know me, and the other, just ignored me.
This has happened ALLOT in my life. i get a feeling i am only good for specific tasks, to assist people, and then i am forgotten about. I have to tell the truth, this makes me sad. this makes me feel even more lonely. makes me feel like i am good for nothing, except helping people with tech stuff or other help, then i am just pushed aside. IS this just how the world works? IS this "normal"? reason i ask is, i don't get out much. By choice. I am a man of few pleasures, and i often stay inside. To the point where only the garbage gets taken out every few days. So i am wondering, because i am not a social butterfly, and "out there" like so many people seem to be, am i judged for this. somehow? Or am i wrong here? i am very confused. My heart is telling me i am a tool, a thing to be used, and discarded. And silly me, i keep helping people. Because i feel its the right thing to do. However, having said that, i am starting to think of just "acting dumb" and i dont "know anything about anything" that way, no one expects anything of me, and i cannot be used and thrown away. i dunno. very unsure and confused.
Basically i am a computer nerd / geek / tech guy. I have helped people out with their computers since my early adult years. And 90% of the time i have asked nothing in return. no payment, no nothing. I just wanted to help someone else out. the only time i have asked for money, is when i have needed to put food on the table. Usually i have that covered. So i do it for free.
People are indeed grateful for my "service" and they make lovely comments, the most recent one is "your the best". I felt sheepish to say the least. The one thing i have noticed, is when i need help from these people for a different matter, and i usually have a good reason for needing assistance, (for example, recently had another seizure, and called the woman who's phone i fixed) for assistance, or just someone to be with for an hour or so, as i become terrified after a seizure. And i often forget almost everything. Amnesia for around 2 hours or so. could not even tell you my name. Anyway, i was ignored. I reached out to 2 people who i have recently helped, and i give free internet access too. and one pretended not to know me, and the other, just ignored me.
This has happened ALLOT in my life. i get a feeling i am only good for specific tasks, to assist people, and then i am forgotten about. I have to tell the truth, this makes me sad. this makes me feel even more lonely. makes me feel like i am good for nothing, except helping people with tech stuff or other help, then i am just pushed aside. IS this just how the world works? IS this "normal"? reason i ask is, i don't get out much. By choice. I am a man of few pleasures, and i often stay inside. To the point where only the garbage gets taken out every few days. So i am wondering, because i am not a social butterfly, and "out there" like so many people seem to be, am i judged for this. somehow? Or am i wrong here? i am very confused. My heart is telling me i am a tool, a thing to be used, and discarded. And silly me, i keep helping people. Because i feel its the right thing to do. However, having said that, i am starting to think of just "acting dumb" and i dont "know anything about anything" that way, no one expects anything of me, and i cannot be used and thrown away. i dunno. very unsure and confused.