Fiona
Cat lady
Do you have a best friend? Or had? How this relationship look(ed) like? Do you feel a need to have one?
I had one. We knew each other for +10 years, through internet (but we met few times). We had some breaks - sometimes she disappeared but mostly me. And last time was probably the final one I guess. I just left her without saying anything (it was around a year ago). I thought that would be best for both of us or I don't know, I had some weird reasons. Now I regret it of course. Is running from people an Asperger's thing? I also had communication issues with her (I was afraid of hurting her, being honest, talking via voice, I wrote too much, she didn't feel appreciated by me etc) but besides that I just loved her. I still do. I was thinking about writing to her again, many times, but treating people like a hotel doesn't seem respectful at all so I decided not to. I painted a portrair of her and put into internet tho, don't know what I expect really. But yeah.
So there is a sad one. Anyone have more optimistic stories?
I had one. We knew each other for +10 years, through internet (but we met few times). We had some breaks - sometimes she disappeared but mostly me. And last time was probably the final one I guess. I just left her without saying anything (it was around a year ago). I thought that would be best for both of us or I don't know, I had some weird reasons. Now I regret it of course. Is running from people an Asperger's thing? I also had communication issues with her (I was afraid of hurting her, being honest, talking via voice, I wrote too much, she didn't feel appreciated by me etc) but besides that I just loved her. I still do. I was thinking about writing to her again, many times, but treating people like a hotel doesn't seem respectful at all so I decided not to. I painted a portrair of her and put into internet tho, don't know what I expect really. But yeah.
So there is a sad one. Anyone have more optimistic stories?