zozie
Well-Known Member
So I just got my assessment results. The doc said I have Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder, noticeable sensory processing difficulties, and that my need for control in situations via information gathering and "needing to know" what social situations mean is rooted in a trauma that happened in my past. She also said that some people just have "quirks" and that she couldn't account for those in my early childhood, but it's definitely not autism.
I used metaphor, for example, and figures of speech, which autistic people apparently cannot do, and that I should really look into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to make peace with my apparent control demons. She also cited a deep loneliness, which I find puzzling (though I know many autists are), and that I present in many autistic ways, but that I'm just not autistic.
I will say that I do indeed have a trauma, more than one, and that I do indeed gather information in order to understand. The control thing seems not quite right. My mother reports that her interview on my early childhood felt tense because she felt guided in a certain direction, and I felt that way as well.
"But there's a silver lining to all of this, autism is forever and your life can improve with the right treatment." Which treatment is that, I wonder? The treatment that encourages me to twist myself into knots trying to admit that I apparently need to control social situations throug hinformation gathering?
In the end, I will say that if what works for me happens to be the same stuff that works for autistic people, then I don't know what to say, given my sensory issues and weird childhood, but ultimately I don't care what this doctor says.
I will, however, reject therapies that don't work for me, such as ones that reach deeper into my intellect to make sense of my emotions. That has ...not worked in the past.
I will indeed follow up on her referral for sensory processing difficulties.
So. That is my assessment journey. As far as diagnosis, well, let me say that it's at the most incomplete, and I learned a huge amount about myself along the way, and that things would have probably gone a lot differently were it not 2020 and I were not fried already by other things.
Thank you all for listening and being so supportive these past few weeks. I hope you don't mind if I stick around.
I used metaphor, for example, and figures of speech, which autistic people apparently cannot do, and that I should really look into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to make peace with my apparent control demons. She also cited a deep loneliness, which I find puzzling (though I know many autists are), and that I present in many autistic ways, but that I'm just not autistic.
I will say that I do indeed have a trauma, more than one, and that I do indeed gather information in order to understand. The control thing seems not quite right. My mother reports that her interview on my early childhood felt tense because she felt guided in a certain direction, and I felt that way as well.
"But there's a silver lining to all of this, autism is forever and your life can improve with the right treatment." Which treatment is that, I wonder? The treatment that encourages me to twist myself into knots trying to admit that I apparently need to control social situations throug hinformation gathering?
In the end, I will say that if what works for me happens to be the same stuff that works for autistic people, then I don't know what to say, given my sensory issues and weird childhood, but ultimately I don't care what this doctor says.
I will, however, reject therapies that don't work for me, such as ones that reach deeper into my intellect to make sense of my emotions. That has ...not worked in the past.
I will indeed follow up on her referral for sensory processing difficulties.
So. That is my assessment journey. As far as diagnosis, well, let me say that it's at the most incomplete, and I learned a huge amount about myself along the way, and that things would have probably gone a lot differently were it not 2020 and I were not fried already by other things.
Thank you all for listening and being so supportive these past few weeks. I hope you don't mind if I stick around.