A few general questions...
-Do you work?
-If so, what job do you do, part-time or full-time? How many hours do you feel capable of doing? What kind of environment do you feel comfortable in?
-If not, have you tried to in the past and things didn't work out? How do you support yourself otherwise? Do you feel incapable of working? Do you want to work? Do you get bored not working? What do you do with all the free time?
I'm currently trying to convince my aspie boyfriend to consider a part-time job in order to help pay the bills. I can cover things on my own, but even him working 10 or 15 hours a week would make us a lot more comfortable. He really wants too but thinks he can't handle it and is afraid to try. I don't know what to do.
I guess for now I'm just trying to understand him...if this kind of difficulty with work is common to aspies or not.
-Do you work?
-If so, what job do you do, part-time or full-time? How many hours do you feel capable of doing? What kind of environment do you feel comfortable in?
-If not, have you tried to in the past and things didn't work out? How do you support yourself otherwise? Do you feel incapable of working? Do you want to work? Do you get bored not working? What do you do with all the free time?
I'm currently trying to convince my aspie boyfriend to consider a part-time job in order to help pay the bills. I can cover things on my own, but even him working 10 or 15 hours a week would make us a lot more comfortable. He really wants too but thinks he can't handle it and is afraid to try. I don't know what to do.
I guess for now I'm just trying to understand him...if this kind of difficulty with work is common to aspies or not.