I've always thought of myself as being a very independent minded person, with my own, critical mind, not easily influenced by other people. I've never really felt the need to do something, or have a certain opinion just because my peers do, and have never been able to relate to this kind of mentailty. For example, I've never understood the idea that people start smoking just because their friends are and they feel pressure to join in - I just don't feel this need to join in and to my mind, smoking smells, is addictive, expensive and can have unpleasant side effects, so it makes no sense to me to start smoking. Likewise, I would never like, or pretend to like a certain kind of music just because it was popular or my friends like it.
And yet, on this site and others, if I come across a post with a lot of karma given, a lot of 'winner' karma for example, I definitely feel a bit of pressure not to stand out from the crowd by giving a different kind of karma. Could this be the result of years of social conditioning, or not liking to stand out in a crowd or draw attention to myself? - Is peer pressure more to do with wanting to be like other people, or not wanting to stand out, draw attention to oneself as being different? I think that, in my case, it is the latter. Really it shouldn't matter about the karma - I mean, whetever you give it's all karma, positive feedback, so it isn't a big deal. And I certainly would never give karma that I don't feel or don't agree with. It could be that often, I can only give one karma at a time and I can't decide which one to give, and then the karma given by others will sway me one way or another. Also, giving karma is different to my example of smoking, because it is a positive thing, with only positive benefits. But it did make me want to analyze the topic a bit more, and I was wondering what other people's thoughts are on this topic. Do you feel this kind of pressure? Are you easily influenced by others, to what extend? Are you totally immune to peer pressure in any form? Are there some times where you definitely are, and other times where you definitely aren't?
And yet, on this site and others, if I come across a post with a lot of karma given, a lot of 'winner' karma for example, I definitely feel a bit of pressure not to stand out from the crowd by giving a different kind of karma. Could this be the result of years of social conditioning, or not liking to stand out in a crowd or draw attention to myself? - Is peer pressure more to do with wanting to be like other people, or not wanting to stand out, draw attention to oneself as being different? I think that, in my case, it is the latter. Really it shouldn't matter about the karma - I mean, whetever you give it's all karma, positive feedback, so it isn't a big deal. And I certainly would never give karma that I don't feel or don't agree with. It could be that often, I can only give one karma at a time and I can't decide which one to give, and then the karma given by others will sway me one way or another. Also, giving karma is different to my example of smoking, because it is a positive thing, with only positive benefits. But it did make me want to analyze the topic a bit more, and I was wondering what other people's thoughts are on this topic. Do you feel this kind of pressure? Are you easily influenced by others, to what extend? Are you totally immune to peer pressure in any form? Are there some times where you definitely are, and other times where you definitely aren't?