This evening I was on the bus back to University from Town. We pulled up to a busier bus stop, the main one if you like.
A guy who was moderately Autistic with maybe another disability scattered in there, got on and sat in front of me..
He dropped his wallet.. I piped up and said 'that's your wallet, you dropped it', he looked at me with a deer in head lights look and didn't say anything.. someone else then got the same treatment a minute or so later. (For a while I did wonder if he stole the wallet)
So, we proceed on down the road. He then starts singing and opening and slamming the window. Everyone was staring at us and I was quite concerned that he was going to draw attention to me, so I moved down the bus.
He then, started shouting and jumping on his seat. I got up and moved downstairs, to which he shouted 'i'm going to ring the police on you mate'.. everyone upstairs and downstairs stared at me!
Trivial I know, but it's not a great experience to go through when you are a timid, reserved person.
I also noticed earlier, a guy who was more on the Asperger's end of the spectrum but more moderate than me. He was a bus enthusiast and kept running up and down the bus taking pictures. Near the end of the journey he was flapping his hands like crazy. Felt a bit awkward, I could see people looking at him wondering why he was behaving that way.. so again sort of embarrassing because he was standing near me.
I know it is what it is, and I should be more empathetic. But during these situations, as a reserved person who does not want to draw attention to myself I am anxious and would be wary that these people would start making a scene around me.
As far as I am concerned these people may as well have a separate disability.
A guy who was moderately Autistic with maybe another disability scattered in there, got on and sat in front of me..
He dropped his wallet.. I piped up and said 'that's your wallet, you dropped it', he looked at me with a deer in head lights look and didn't say anything.. someone else then got the same treatment a minute or so later. (For a while I did wonder if he stole the wallet)
So, we proceed on down the road. He then starts singing and opening and slamming the window. Everyone was staring at us and I was quite concerned that he was going to draw attention to me, so I moved down the bus.
He then, started shouting and jumping on his seat. I got up and moved downstairs, to which he shouted 'i'm going to ring the police on you mate'.. everyone upstairs and downstairs stared at me!
Trivial I know, but it's not a great experience to go through when you are a timid, reserved person.
I also noticed earlier, a guy who was more on the Asperger's end of the spectrum but more moderate than me. He was a bus enthusiast and kept running up and down the bus taking pictures. Near the end of the journey he was flapping his hands like crazy. Felt a bit awkward, I could see people looking at him wondering why he was behaving that way.. so again sort of embarrassing because he was standing near me.
I know it is what it is, and I should be more empathetic. But during these situations, as a reserved person who does not want to draw attention to myself I am anxious and would be wary that these people would start making a scene around me.
As far as I am concerned these people may as well have a separate disability.