a very important msg that every should view

[soniiiety]

hello all this is an announcement, you all might hate me, you all might not like what I about to say

but this is my opinion, the chat section is fake and here's way

i believe that most of see on this forum are either complaints or self attention."

This site cannot help you. what your looking for isnt here.

most people are avoiding their problems, the only way to fix it is to find a specialist, they are more qualified then a doctor or counselor , like jason Edgecombe

and most of the people might assume things like"HES A TROLL"

or that I don't like it here.

please do not use this site to talk to anyone here, they wont help you, your wasting your time, please find a real youth group or ring up some family and talk to them.

I have high functioning autism. and i have been depressed every since I was bullied at school.

i have been lonely, but I know I have my family and others to talk to.

 

[Bolletje]

The forums have been plenty helpful for me.

 

[Isadoorian]

The forums have been plenty helpful for me.

Just report the post; the guy basically insulted everyone here on the Site in the Chat Room saying everyone here's not Autistic and saying the site's not supportive and other not-so-nice things

Don't feed the Troll is what I say

 

[Crossbreed]

@soniiiety , hello & welcome[...?]

but this is my opinion, the chat section is fake...

I don't use chat. I don't type very fast and I like to edit my posts.

i believe that most of see on this forum are either complaints or self attention."

That "self" is the "aut(o)-" in autism. The rest of us are like, "Boy, can I relate," or "Here is what I did about it..."

the only way to fix it is to find a specialist, they are more qualified then a doctor or counselor,...

Everyone here recommends the same thing. Some people don't know where to look for such a specialist until they ask here.

i have been lonely, but I know I have my family and others to talk to.

So, what brings you to Autism Forums?

 

[Nauti]

Wow @soniiiety , you sound very self important (the title of your post gives you away there) very cynical and invested in destroying hope. It sounds like depression and bitterness talking. I don't see what is so important about your message.
And what, may I ask, are you going on, what evidence supports your claims?
I don't chat so I don't what you are referring to, there. You are generalizing tremendously, something that always puts me off. It's a reductionist and pompous approach and I just can't give your assertions the respect you obviously crave. You come across as if you "care" while undermining people's confidence in a site which is vast, full of many people, all of which cannot possibly fall under your banner of "complaints and self attention" and by the way, why shame people for either, anyway?

You, my friend are a false virtue signaller and someone devoted to disempowering others with your hubris. I don't hate you, I don't even know you. I just don't respect your worldview, it's bleak, and a projection. You, in fact, are the one "complaining and seeking attention" and a platform of unexamined power grabbing. Your overinvestment and trust in authorties and your disdain for peers helping peers shows your naivety and lack of nuanced discernment. I doubt anyone will take you seriously as you have nothing to offer.
Be real or begone, is what I say. Nothing of what you say shows any authenticity, just a ploy to elevate yourself at the expense of others. Not the right way to influence or show you care.

 

[Fridgemagnetman]

You are generalizing tremendously, something that always puts me off

Everybody does it......


Oops

 

[Fino]

I think everyone should be kind, no one should take anything said as a personal attack despite any potential intentions, the words of a person in pain are not a threat, and all responses should be a loving gathering of information.

Please?

I'm guessing this thread will just be locked, but it's rare for me to find one of these somewhat close to its beginning so I thought I'd try.

I see two possible outcomes from something like this:
1. Learn
2. Shut it down

The first two things I have a pipe dream of being explained are:
1. What are you referring to when you say "what you're looking for"?
2. Fix what?

Those might be the same question, as I see it's likely they refer to the same thing.

Thank you so much if you answer and it's comprehensible to any extent!

P.S. Your picture is adorable!

 

[Nauti]

Well it wasn't a kind post, so I doubt that's what he was poking for.
We don't hate you @soniiiety. Maybe try somewhere other than chat and be clear in what you want? Chat is subject to whoever happens to be there at the time, so it's a pretty narrow scope.
I'm not going to apologize for what I said, but I'll admit, I was cranky at being mislead about the "importance" of the message.
It got attention and I think that's what he wanted, am I right @soniiiety ? It just wasn't a "nice" way to do it and I'm not going to play
"I'm-more-virtuous-than-you,-look-at-how- "nice- I-am".
I'd rather be honest, at least then you know where you stand with me.
I'll take honesty over "niceness" anyday.

 

[Progster]

This site cannot help you. what your looking for isnt here.

You speak for yourself, you can't speak for other forum members.

the chat section is fake

Looks very real to me.

i believe that most of see on this forum are either complaints or self attention."

So you make another thread in order to complain and seek attention. Ironic.

I have high functioning autism. and i have been depressed every since I was bullied at school.

i have been lonely, but I know I have my family and others to talk to.

If that's the case, then talk to them and seek help. No need to take out your frustrations on the forum. The main forum has little to do with the chat anyway, most people on the main forum don't participate in the chat, so why take out your frustration on them?

 

[Isadoorian]

Well it wasn't a kind post, so I doubt that's what he was poking for.
We don't hate you @soniiiety. Maybe try somewhere other than chat and be clear in what you want? Chat is subject to whoever happens to be there at the time, so it's a pretty narrow scope.
I'm not going to apologize for what I said, but I'll admit, I was cranky at being mislead about the "importance" of the message.
It got attention and I think that's what he wanted, am I right @soniiiety ? It just wasn't a "nice" way to do it and I'm not going to play
"I'm-more-virtuous-than-you,-look-at-how- "nice- I-am".
I'd rather be honest, at least then you know where you stand with me.
I'll take honesty over "niceness" anyday.

My advice is unless it's directly from a Staff Member, to not believe any other posts as being important if they're titled as such, as it'll likely be something like this guys post to try and undermine everyones feelings and basically cause chaos.

 

[Crossbreed]

..., as it'll likely be something like this guys post to try and undermine everyones feelings and basically cause chaos.

It should take more than a "YOU STINK!" post to seriously discourage participation here...

 

[Progster]

It's a 'hit and run' post. I doubt we'll hear anything from him/her again.

 

[Suzanne]

I personally, cannot cope with the chat room and do not have it on my main page.

 

[AuBurney Tuckerson]

hello all this is an announcement, you all might hate me, you all might not like what I about to say

but this is my opinion, the chat section is fake and here's way

i believe that most of see on this forum are either complaints or self attention."

This site cannot help you. what your looking for isnt here.

most people are avoiding their problems, the only way to fix it is to find a specialist, they are more qualified then a doctor or counselor , like jason Edgecombe

and most of the people might assume things like"HES A TROLL"

or that I don't like it here.

please do not use this site to talk to anyone here, they wont help you, your wasting your time, please find a real youth group or ring up some family and talk to them.

I have high functioning autism. and i have been depressed every since I was bullied at school.

i have been lonely, but I know I have my family and others to talk to.

There was a chat? -looks- Oh.. Anyway, you can't assume that we're all here seeking attention or help; you also can't assume what helps a certain person. Just because it fails to help you doesn't mean it'll fail to help everyone else. You're not the only one with depression; me and many other people here have it, too. We've come here to socialize, receive advice, and vent here. Don't drag everyone else down with you just because you dislike it or had a bad experience. It's not nicenice, and it just hurts everyone elseelse, especially assuming that everyone here just seeks attention. That offends everyone who actually comes here for advice and social contact.

 

[Southern Discomfort]

 

[Fino]

It would be amazing if we somehow coordinated it so that every single response to this thread was a meme.

 

[Kevin1968]

All I am going to add is that I was at one of the lowest points in my life when I came here and from visiting the chat section have discovered that others here seem to understand and that helped me.

I can visit the chat section and vent any issue unlike in real life where there is no one I both trust AND want to burden or worry about me

It may not be for everyone of course.

Ideally perhaps professional help may have been better or more appropriate but unfortunately is not accessible to me.

 

[Major Tom]

Whatever you say man.. The forums and the chat room are my home away from home.. Sorry you had a bad experience, but maybe the chat room is not the place for you.

 

[NothingToSeeHere]

the chat section is fake

I don't think you understand what the word "fake" means. The chat section is real, in that it exists and people use it for it's designed function i.e. to chat.

this forum are either complaints or self attention

Well what do you think it should be used for? Talking about the weather? Also, pot, meet kettle.

This site cannot help you. what your looking for isnt here

Speak for yourself.

please do not use this site to talk to anyone here

… again, what do you expect a forum to be used for other than talking to people? That is it's only purpose...

Well, whatever. You do you boo.

 

[Bolletje]

Just report the post; the guy basically insulted everyone here on the Site in the Chat Room saying everyone here's not Autistic and saying the site's not supportive and other not-so-nice things

I wasn’t there for that, so I wasn’t aware of what happened in the chat room, although I assumed it wasn’t all kittens and rainbows.
I wasn’t feeding the troll, just stating my experience. I doubt OP will be back to respond anyway.