I have a friend that has a son whom I think has Asperger's. He is 15 now. But I have known them since he was 2. He has been diagnosed with speech delay and possible ADD, according to the mom - years ago. In elementary school he was best friends with my son, but, there were always issues. Temper tantrums over games, no empathy over hurt feelings. He rarely spoke (only to friends), and even now that he speaks more his words are not clear. He does not pronounce his Rs. A teacher in elem school suggested to his mom that something might be wrong, but it angered her. More noticeable in middle school as social situations begin to become more important. My son became embarrassed of him. He is very awkward in social settings. He is not anti-social, he deeply craves, I wouldn't say friendship, but to always have a friend around. In fact, he has certain boys he really likes, one is my son, and he literally follows them wherever they go, bathroom or just 2 steps over. He has been made fun of, and does not realize it. Does not understand jokes, only his own unusual humor. He speaks loudly and extreme monotone in certain situations. Now in high school, much the same as middle school. My son stresses that he loves Austin like a brother, but he is mortified at his behavior often times. He never gets into trouble at school, but he needs a lot of help to pass each course. He is obsessed with video games. I could go on and on, and give a million examples. My advice to my son is to treat him with love and kindness because "something" is different - more than just speech delay and immaturity as his mom explains. I would most certainly lose my "friendship" with this mom giving her my opinion, because its obvious she knows her son is different and is frustrated - but in extreme denial or fear. She has always said how she hopes he will get more mature eventually. I think he is who he is, and there is nothing wrong with that. But I can't help but think he could get help to improve the difficult areas in his life. And if he did get diagnosed with Asbergers, would it even matter now??