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97% Of Older Men Don’t Realise Girls Ask THIS To Hit On You

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Most men over 50 miss the biggest signs a woman is flirting—because she doesn’t say it directly. She asks. In this video, you’ll learn the 8 subtle questions women ask when they’re secretly interested, and how to respond with confidence and clarity. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, or just re-entering the dating world after 50, this guide will help you recognize female interest without missing your moment. These are real-life insights for mature men who still believe in real connection.
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Holy Moses! Yeah, I would never, in a million years, get any of those hints or figure out what was really being asked. Totally oblivious. I have never understood indirect language, nor ever will.

I am thinking there should be a follow up video for women on how to use direct language and how we will never understand them otherwise. We are not women. We do not think like them. Don't expect us to think that way and get confused, frustrated, or upset when we don't. You might as well be speaking Mandarin Chinese or some other language we don't understand. ;)

3 words for women to understand when dealing with men. Clear. Direct. Concise.
 
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Erm... I do get what he is saying and I have had many missed opportunities because I genuinely have not realized they were invitations and most of these are from women I was attracted to.
The issue is, I could do with someone who asks me directly, where the usual types who would natrually ask directly are the types of women who live lifestyles the opposite to mine...
It is not easy as I need to be direct myself but I can't because it is not really me?
So the types I would really get along with are the types I tend to miss and therefore I remain single unable to attract the ones I like and vice versa.

So the issue is that I need a sign on me which says "If you like me and view me as a potential date then please grab me and don't let me go!" As then I will realize this is a lady to date! I hope that makes sense?
 
I hate these videos that are voiced by AI because the syntax is always completely off.

Anyway... yeah, for the most part I'm going to agree with this one. Basically what he's saying is use words to talk to other people. There's no need to try to be funny all the time and it's unattractive to put yourself down all the time. It's not a game that you need to try to win, you just learn to speak to others and manage your emotions.
 
There's nothing like a good, old mansplaining video about what women are thinking. Or maybe it's a man's video lecturing to women about how we're supposed to communicate.
 
This video isn't by the guy in the photograph, and it's unlikely they're his words.

Unsurprisingly the videos comments aren't generally positive.
It's about how to lose a biased game, and there isn't much of a market for that in 2025.
 
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Her: "But...but....this isn't who you pretended to be when we first met ! What happened ?"

Him: "I was only pretending to strategically manipulate you into sustaining interest in me. My bad."

Me: "Small wonder I kept my distance from courtship rituals. The games people play." :rolleyes:
 
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Rodafina said:
It's creepy that they didn't choose the word "women" here instead of "girls."
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It's AI clickbait, based on content for a much younger audience, and tuned for an older one to get some extra views with little extra effort.

Given that it's AI it will have mixed sources, but it's definitely not written in a "male voice".

BTW some of the content is ok, though IMO it's less useful for a mature audience than a suitably tubed version would be for a younger one.
But it's no worse than most other "lonely hearts advice" in Youtube - a niche which as at least as many XX-sourced channels as XY.
 
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I guess that makes adults using the terms girlfriend and boyfriend creepy too
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I don't think that assertion logically follows my comment.

Boyfriend and girlfriend are equivalent. The video title uses terms that are not.

My comment is strictly in the context of this topic, this video, and the title.

I don't dispute the use of the word "girl" to describe "women," universally. All I'm doing is sharing my feeling that to me, this title is creepy.
 
Rodafina said:
I don't think that assertion logically follows my comment.

Boyfriend and girlfriend are equivalent. The video title uses terms that are not.

My comment is strictly in the context of this topic, this video, and the title.

I don't dispute the use of the word "girl" to describe "women," universally. All I'm doing is sharing my feeling that to me, this title is creepy.
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Fair enough I see what you mean now
 
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