• Welcome to Autism Forums, a friendly forum to discuss Aspergers Syndrome, Autism, High Functioning Autism and related conditions.

    Your voice is missing! You will need to register to get access to the following site features:
    • Reply to discussions and create your own threads.
    • Our modern chat room. No add-ons or extensions required, just login and start chatting!
    • Private Member only forums for more serious discussions that you may wish to not have guests or search engines access to.
    • Your very own blog. Write about anything you like on your own individual blog.

    We hope to see you as a part of our community soon! Please also check us out @ https://www.twitter.com/aspiescentral

Markness

Markness

V.I.P Member
Young God 35
Joined
Last seen
Messages
2,369
Reactions
5,527
Points
313

Profile posts Latest activity Postings About

  • Markness
    My body hurts all over.
    tree
    tree
    That was about 8 or 9 hours ago. How about now?
    Markness
    Markness
    It’s largely subsided now.
    tree
    tree
    Maybe you were tired. Very tired.
    Markness
    I have to wait for a call back from a TWC counselor.
    tree
    tree
    You submitted one of their self-referral forms?
    Markness
    Markness
    I talked to one of their counselors over the phone to set up an appointment.
    Markness
    Is there a way out for me?
    tree
    tree
    There is a way through.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    You have to go get it through working. Try a part-time weekend job. Get up and go out. Create your opportunities.
    Markness
    I feel trapped by my routine as well as my mother’s control freak behavior.
    tree
    tree
    Contacting Voc. Rehab. probably wouldn't hurt. You don't have to get your mother's permission to do that.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    My ex stayed with my mom, he told me my mom is a control freak also.
    Shaddock
    Shaddock
    I always said in the past when I was 18 and lived with my mom (before I moved out)." you can decide over the appartment, but can not decide over me, because I´m adult." but she also had problems to accept this. but today we don´t have these problems and have different appartments.
    Markness
    I wish my birthday wasn’t closing in.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Oh boy. You got those birthday blues.
    Shaddock
    Shaddock
    I´m sorry but we can not pack a girlfriend for you and send you as birthday present. it would be against human rights and laws.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    But it would be sweet if you got a girl kitty cat. I like boy cats myself. A black and white cat is on my wish list.
    Markness
    I want to know if my age (33) and inexperience doesn’t prevent me from ever having a girlfriend.
    View previous comments…
    Markness
    Markness
    @tree I wish there was official data.
    tree
    tree
    Seems like public records of marriages would provide some input.
    Shaddock
    Shaddock
    tree´s endurance is not from this world. maybe she is an intelligent artifical intelligence or an extraterrestrial life form. noone knows.
    Markness
    Why do some people not want me to have a girlfriend?
    tree
    tree
    Because they think you're a dim witted, no skill loser that shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. Oh, and you don't like yourself. So why should anyone else? Plus, the universe is focused on the thrill of seeing you unhappy. That sums up what you've said in the past, I think.
    Markness
    Markness
    I wish I could prove my naysayers wrong.
    tree
    tree
    You don't feel secure.
    Markness
    Forgot that today was 1st Friday. I am reminded once more that my invitation to the party got lost in the mail.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Hey. Be happy. Just go out and make your own party.
    tree
    tree
    Charlie Brown. That's what the "invitation to the party got lost in the mail" made me think of.
    Markness
    Is there a cutoff age to getting into a relationship? I fear I’ve hit it because my efforts to get a girlfriend always fail.
    View previous comments…
    Markness
    Markness
    Why haven’t my efforts been successful, though?
    tree
    tree
    If you have continued to develop your social/people skills since the age of, say 12 or so, then your efforts are successful. This idea that there is a cutoff age/a time limit is not doing you any favors. You fret over it. You continually bring it up. Who told you there was a time limit to being able to love & be loved?
    Stuttermabolur
    Stuttermabolur
    No there isn't. Several people get into a relationship in their 70's or even later. My mother got into relationship with a man (who I heavily suspect is autistic) well into his 50's who had never been in a relationship before. He lived in a small apartment where he hoarded films and books. He was also pretty unfit and ate lots of candy.
    Markness
    We Have Demons is the best current American comic I’ve read so far this year.
    tree
    tree
    Best how?
    Markness
    Markness
    Best in art, pacing, plot, and overall craft.
    Markness
    Discord communities are so toxic.
    Stuttermabolur
    Stuttermabolur
    I am in one pretty nice community, but it's probably just because it is quite small, built around one person who engages quite actively with it, and a chunk of the people there have been friends for 20+ years. I haven't looked into any more though because of Discord's reputation. When I did look at a couple of other channels early on, they were... not for me.
    Markness
    I feel so overwhelmed with life’s demands.
    tree
    tree
    Has the specialist offered any insight regarding your condition? Or still waiting for feedback from them?
    Markness
    Markness
    The latter.
    Storm Hess
    Storm Hess
    You get more what you focus on. Make an effort to change your focus. I fight with this everyday. I try as best as possible to change my perspective. I exercise and get the endorphines running, I'll go for a walk to clear my head. Whatever it takes. Switch your focus and you be able to change your outcome and find your goals.
    Markness
    I wish I had a different job.
    View previous comments…
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    True @tree.
    Maturity means you don't give a rat's behind about those two people. The two questions l say? Do those two people pay your bills? Will they come to your funeral? Then don't worry about them.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I wish you had a different job. Being on the spectrum means change is hard for us. So don't blame the two people. Realize it's harder for us to get out of the grind and find/do something better.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    The fact you are employed now makes it easier to get a better job if you were so inclined. I'm looking for employment myself and the hassle of online applications confuses me. See if you can find some help somewhere with applying & go for it.
    Markness
    My tongue is still tasting adrenaline.
    tree
    tree
    The old Mt. Dew flavor? Or were you referring to feeling excited?
    Markness
    Markness
    I almost hit a family of deer while driving home last night.
  • Loading…
  • Loading…
  • Loading…
Top Bottom