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Markness

Markness

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  • Markness
    I have been saddled with looking after my younger sibling and his family’s pets for a week.
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    tree
    tree
    How would the dog get out of the house?
    Window? Door?
    Barged out when you were going in??
    Markness
    Markness
    @tree The front door was open and he ran past me out it.
    tree
    tree
    Good thing somebody caught him.
    Markness
    It’s 4:02 AM. I woke up two hours ago because after I got home from work, I fell asleep for the rest of the day. I was extremely tired and also bummed out because I still haven’t heard back from my new friend.
    L
    Luca
    I'm sorry to hear that. I also woke up too early today.
    Sometimes it takes people a long time to respond, I hope she will get back to you soon.
    Markness
    Markness
    @Luca She replied to me this morning!
    Markness
    I feel doomed to forever keep hitting dead ends in social interactions. There are no solutions and I am considered a lost cause.
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    Misery
    Misery
    We've already been over this like 500 times by now. I and many others have given advice on what to do, the KEY thing to do. Still, you wont do it. Instead, you keep repeating... this stuff. You dont HAVE to stay in that cycle, but you wont step out of it.
    Misery
    Misery
    YOU are not a lost cause. Repeating for emphasis: You... are... NOT... a lost cause. That PATH you're on though? THAT is a lost cause. Until you take some bloody steps off of it, well... you already experienced what happens. Over and over...
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Remember there are thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. You express your thoughts and feelings frequently, but it is the action you take in life that has the potential to change your situation.
    Markness
    I guess I am just bad at Omega Strikers. I keep losing when I try to do more missions and the nature of the gameplay is overwhelming.
    tree
    tree
    Misery
    Misery
    It had actually been in beta for quite awhile so there's already a lot of expert players on there. Can make it seem extra hard if they happen to get matched with a newer player.
    Misery
    Misery
    Matchmaking is supposed to filter that situation out, but anyone that's done enough online gaming knows that matchmaking just never quite works right.
    Markness
    I am not looking forward to turning 35, especially when I still don’t have a girlfriend.
    UberScout
    UberScout
    Bro. I'm 279 lbs and I got acne all over me. I got one, and you can too; if a girl says looks matter, she shopping at the wrong sto.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I turn 46 next month and I still don't have a girlfriend. I am not letting it put me down. I am looking at all the positive people I have in my life and positive things I am doing.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    35, hey, l never dated until 37, and l met my husband. You still got two years, don't give up.
    Markness
    My parents don’t realize the consequences their choices had on my life.
    oregano
    oregano
    My parents made the bad decision to have a kid. To be fair, there was no such thing as DNA testing in 1974, and it never occurred to them that the baby might have the "worst of both worlds". Then they were stuck with a very sickly child, and few resources to care for him.
    UberScout
    UberScout
    They sound wicked toxic, mate. Cut em loose.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Markness
    It feels abnormal to be my age and single.
    Markness
    My life is still unhappy. :(
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Usually both happiness and unhappiness have ebbs and flows like the tide. Happy and unhappy happen together, depending on what you are doing and thinking.

    Maybe you could try to think of unhappy moments instead of an unhappy life. Having unhappy moments allows for the presence of happy and neutral moments, too.
    Markness
    I’m probably going to die alone and unloved at this rate. :(
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    We all die alone. Even if we're in a room full of people, we are the one's departing.

    Learn to love yourself, then work outwards.

    Not easy I know, I'm still trying myself. But I can say this - it does affect relationships in a deep way. I know you crave a relationship with so much energy and focus, but don't treat it like it will be salvation from your struggles.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    You can technically be in a relationship and still be unloved. I struggle with that particular. Better to love yourself, and live for you.
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