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Markness

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  • Ohhhh! What a nightmare!
    Markness
    Markness
    @tree The imagery in it was very disturbing to my mind’s eye and it still bothers me. It’s like it’s clinging to my mind.
    tree
    tree
    @Markness
    You could try getting it outside yourself by writing it out.
    A dream journal.
    If that sounds too formal, just think of it as "that notebook where I keep a record of what I've dreamed."
    Markness
    Markness
    @tree I still have a spare journal in my room.
    I haven’t forgotten this place nor the people who support me. This week has just been busy for me.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    We haven't forgot you either; hope the week is productive and going well. Good luck--
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Hopefully the good kind of busy. Haven’t forgotten about you either.
    I came across a Discord server that’s actually friendly in general but I won’t get my hopes up about it.
    Crossbreed
    Crossbreed
    With a name like "Discord," it does not sound promising...
    full
    Misery
    Misery
    @Crossbreed If you've ever heard of AOL Instant Messenger (AIM) or Yahoo Messenger, those old things that arent around now, it's basically what replaced those. Very similar. Same problems, too.
    mysterionz
    mysterionz
    I’m too scared of discord.. on a South Park discord server I got told to off myself. I stay away from the app discord like the plague.
    Two hours passed and I asked for my car key back.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    If it's not fixed yet, you might run into trouble. Sometimes it takes awhile to get the car fixed esp. with older cars. Takes me two or three days just to get tires. Makes it where you've got to walk home.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    With some of those repairs you mentioned (transmission fluid, etc) they probably would have to take a bit longer on fixing it as the whole bottom of the transmission or transaxle (if front wheel drive) has to be cleaned and prepped. They also have to have the new filter and that might mean special ordering it from a parts store. If you're lucky the parts store has it in stock.
    I’ve lost track of time at the tire store waiting to get my car back.
    tree
    tree
    @Markness Did you have an appointment scheduled, specifically for tire rotation?
    Or was this a walk in?
    Markness
    Markness
    It was a walk in. I was told I couldn’t get an appointment until Friday.
    tree
    tree
    Have you made an appointment anywhere?
    I took my car in to get its oil changed. Turns out it also needed its transmission fluid changed and the ac filter was extremely dirty. The latter is concerning because I’ve apparently been breathing in bad air.
    Markness
    Markness
    They had a clean filter that I bit the bullet on and bought. The air doesn’t have a weird smell now.
    Gerontius
    Gerontius
    Nice! Little routine maintenance helps. My old car's overdue on oil and I might just do the transmission fluid & filter--put the thing on blocks in the back yard & just go ahead & flush it with kerosene & fix it. I think mine is too old to have an a/c filter in it though so it just smells like worn plush and exhaust leak anyway.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    The cabin filter is usually located behind the glove compartment. I check mine regularly because of where I live. Out in the country mice enjoy making nests on the intake side of the filter. It is only a couple of minutes and no tools to change it out.
    I don’t want to give up on finding love.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    You have two choices, complain incessantly and put a barrier between yourself and love or start working to be a person who attracts acceptance and love.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    ^ There are many more than just these two choices.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Yes . . . guilty of creating a dichotomy. There is a powerful scene in A Silent Voice where the protagonist is finally seeing and hearing people and is upen to the love from his friends and family. That led to a lot of discussion from my Little Brother.
    I am ordering online from Lowes, because l am not into how much testosterone walks around that store. Maybe they could have a ladies only night. Lol. I have become alot more tolerant and l don't respond or interact which is healthier.
    Markness
    Markness
    Really? I’ve never gotten that impression from Lowe’s. Why do you feel it has too much testosterone?
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Sometimes l feel l am getting to much attention for a female in my age group. I like to be anonymous when l go out, kinda of unnoticed, but that doesn't seem to happen.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    ^ @Aspychata, you need to practice your ninja skills. I can help you!
    How can I feel hopeful?
    tree
    tree
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Focus on things you enjoy and recognize that these make you interesting. As far as hope goes learn to be proactive, with your health as well as your feelings by remembering something positive about yourself. Uncover your positive qualities and lead with them.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Do what you enjoy. Building things, reading anime, playing RPG's and playing guitar.
    Why is love denied to me?
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    I can pick that G, D7, C on my banjo and add a hammer and slide.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    @Markness
    The more power you give to thinking this, the more you are willing it to happen. You have to everyday say l will meet a friend today, and maybe it will lead to a deeper commitment.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Plus you meet people but they may not want to be serious, only friends, so u need to be prepared for uncertainty in relationships.
    I wish people would stop telling me they don’t want me to have a girlfriend.
    Markness
    Markness
    @Aspychata I try to shut them out of my mind and I want to prove them wrong. I suppose I need to actually love myself and stop being my own bully.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    @Markness
    This sounds like a great idea. Maybe you can move forward with this new thought of not being a bully to yourself.
    Gerald Wilgus
    Gerald Wilgus
    Trying to refute somebody for personal matters means that you have issues. Are you trying to feel better about yourself. When what you want to accomplish is not self driven, but directed by others, you look weak as you are giving them power.
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