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tree
tree
Sorry to hear that you have recurring thoughts and have no effective means of countering them.
Markness
Markness
Even when I was a boy, I had recurring thoughts and wished they would stop.
tree
tree
You didn't have an effective means of dealing with your thoughts then,
and you still don't. What, if anything, has your therapist done with you
regarding that?
S
Slime_Punk
Clashes are just a part of life, and they'll probably happen more often as you continue to be open and honest about your feelings. Have you tried embracing these recurring thoughts instead of running from them?
Markness
Markness
@tree She actually has given me methods to deal with the thoughts. My memory just tends to be poor and my future looks so bleak.
Markness
Markness
@Silhouette Mirage I tend to just let them play over and over again. Is that embracing them?
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
Do I want to be in a relationship? Yes, unbelievably bad. However, I am not going to be obsessed about it. I am just going to thank the good things I have in my life.
S
Slime_Punk
Yes! Although unfortunately it probably doesn't work the same for everyone :(
tree
tree
@Markness : I tend to just let them play over and over again. Is that embracing them?
Not in any positive sense.
More like you are submitting to them.
Like saying "kick me kick me kick me" over and over.
Gerontius
Gerontius
If anything came from the last weekend's anime con you were at, you are more than capable of being surrounded by pretty girls IRL and having the full support of a bunch of people online, so -- Just remember that it is possible to be yourself & still have the fixings of a successful social life
Gerontius
Gerontius
Hey I had an idea! Waiting for love to come into your life sounds like it doesn't work so far, so what if you go look for it this year, instead of this "waiting" stuff. That might work a lot better. It takes an act of the will but you can surely manage that.
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