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Recent content by sararini

  1. sararini

    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    What's keeping me is the fact that, despite always hating the idea of marriage, and being content with the idea of spending my life single, I could actually see myself marrying. I never thought I'd want to marry someone, but the idea of marrying him made me happy. But lately things have gotten...
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    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    He can't really afford to pay someone to clean. He has his brother living with him, but his brother cleans on his own time, and they don't get along great so I guess he doesn't want to ask him to help. And he mentioned that me being there 'might not make a dramatic difference (in the cleaning?)...
  3. sararini

    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    Ahh. :( As I mentioned in my previous comment, my boyfriend asked me through text to help him clean tomorrow, he said it's okay if I said no. I told him I'd help him, and that I'd let him know if there's something I don't feel comfortable doing, 'but please don't get upset with me if there's...
  4. sararini

    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    Unreasonable expectations - that makes a lot of sense. And I agree, he needs to question his conclusions, but he can't seem to see that. He says when I ask him not to react these ways, he says that's who he is, that he can't change it, and that by asking him to do that I'm pretty much asking him...
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    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    Yes, he has Asperger's. I don't think I should leave him over this. He's incredibly important to me, and vice versa. If it comes down to it, maybe I just need to learn to not get my feelings hurt so easily. I am extremely sensitive. He says he feels like he can't talk to me anymore because I get...
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    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    I think he might. I know we had some issues throughout the relationship, he had these ideas of what kind of person I was, and when I didn't react in a way he expected, or told him something about myself he wouldn't think was true or went against what he thought he knew, he would get upset and...
  7. sararini

    My boyfriend keeps getting upset with me for unexpected reasons.

    I'm sorry, I just need to vent, and I don't know where else I can go with this sort of thing. It just seems like my boyfriend of one year, who has asperger's, is always upset with me over something lately, and I'm starting to feel so worn down and lost. Today's example: my boyfriend and I live...
  8. sararini

    I am a boyfriend that has difficulty in communicating my thoughts and boundaries.

    (I'm posting this on behalf of my boyfriend, who can't create an account for personal reasons.) I am a guy with mid level aspergers. I can socialize with people that I know and am comfortable with but can't communicate well if the conversation involves personal values, personal feelings and...
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    How do me and my very attached boyfriend make it work?

    My boyfriend of nearly 10 months has aspergers. I love him to death, but he's very clingy, he wants me to spend all my time with him. He doesn't like to be alone, due to depression, PTSD, and other issues. And it's hard for me to understand and explain, but the way he explained it is...he...
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