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Recent content by PatSharp

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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    I'm crying a lot at the moment it seems... Everything is setting me off. Went for a walk to clear my head earlier and broke down when I got back. Went on a route where we used to walk together during the summer, and it hit me so hard. What a stupid decision that was. I've never found breakups...
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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    Thank you SO much for your honest and optimistic response. I can't thank you enough for being so understanding and warm towards my problems. :( Made me cry a lot. I struggled with my thoughts on a daily basis, which I found hard... why did things feel so wrong so in our relationship? I was...
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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    After reading more and more about the subject, I definitely think that if I knew she displayed aspergers traits we could have fixed what was wrong. It wasn't just the intimacy that was the problem, that was MY problem, and I dealt with that as best I could. But she would sound grumpy or...
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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    I totally agree, this was my thinking too, I was just wondering if it was wrong for me to not say something to her or to her mother. Her family are oblivious, her mum knows nothing of her trauma, and I feel pain that there's nothing I can do to help. I guess I leave it, and hope she can try to...
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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    Replies already, thank you everyone, I appreciate your responses so much! To clear some things up, I never once forced or persuaded her to do things when she didn't feel like it. I made sure I told her that if she was tired or didn't want to do anything, just say so and we won't. It did seem...
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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    She has most recently has told me it's her mind... she gets caught up in her own thoughts and anxieties and doesn't think about what I may need or want. It's also the PTSD that she's struggling to deal with, and her anxiety problems. She has said it's her anxiety for years, putting herself on...
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    Very recently split up with girlfriend... now I'm here it seems to all make sense :(

    Good evening everyone, I feel strange posting on a forum when I don't have much knowledge on a subject, but hopefully you don't mind me intruding and recounting my story. I'm convinced many NT people show some signs of Asperger's Syndrome or Autism, but maybe just one or two, rather than loads...
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