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Sustainable plans for employment

My girlfriend was over during the weekend and compared to other people that are in a committed relationship (at least from what I've gathered over time), we don't deal in a lot of "romantic" time as such. Quite often we both discuss laws, rulings and the entire political agenda more than anything. Yes, we play a videogame here or there, we have some fun together with other stuff, but quite often we end up debating stuff that's not necessarily light.

As some might know, my girlfriend is somewhat in the same boat as me. She's been diagnosed with Asperger's amongst other things, so it's fair to say she knows her part about daily issues and struggles as well. Only difference with her, she's been diagnosed earlier than me, she's been in special ed. It's fair to mention she's younger than me. By the time it really mattered for her, Asperger's was already the current option, opposed to a history of therapists during DSM 3 days with me.

At the moment she's on disability income and with that she's currently enrolling in a graphic design course on a school that's for disabled people. I asked her what she has to do and also how it's covered financially. She receives a living allowance, government pays her education, her books, her computer programs... pretty much no expense is spared. That's really awesome and I really hope she will get a degree of sorts and be successful with a job.

However, and this is the talk over dinner; statistics show that a lot more people are being diagnosed with anything. Basically everyone has something. Nationwide here, 1 in 100 has autism (compared to 1 in 88 in the US). But still, 1 in 100? and that's just autism. Add in the full spectrum of every other disability in the DSM and I think you got a big group that needs special attention. For relevance sake, I've taken a look at just the people that are disabled in some form in terms of employment: an "employment disability". That is roughly 14% of the population that is deemed to be able to work. Four-teen per-cent!

That number is climbing year after year after year. And because we've got disability laws as well as social security a lot of these people are actually not working and receiving benefits of sorts.

It doesn't take a genius that a country that"s screaming "we need to make cuts" for the past few years cannot sustain this. And if I look at the expenses that are being made to make sure disabled people get both schooled and accommodated I think it's fair to assume it's a problem.

I predict that in a few years, they'll cancel disability income put everyone on social security and be done with it. It's cheaper. I've already been told that if I need coaching and therapy while receiving social security I should shell out the money myself. The moment I ask if they can do math for me and tell me how I can afford this they'll brush it off with "that's not my job".

But I can see some truth in the claim they make. The government can't sustain that. The social security office told me "we've got a lot of people to get employed and our resources are running low". Their resources are still government funded. So national cutbacks hit this as well.

Obviously rising cost in coaching and education doesn't help it a lot for people to seek out and finance help themselves. For a rough idea; I contacted a career counselor that deals with people on disability. His wage (and that's with most of them around here) is about 25% of my monthly income an hour! And If anything, I'm sure I need more than an hour a month with this person. In high school I dealt with counselors for 5 hours a week and that didn't result in much. I'm not slamming this person for what he wants for a paycheck, ask all you want, but when government does not step in and leaves people to pay of it themselves, it turns into a detrimental thing and is in no way contributing to society. I mean here's a catch 22; if I'm that filthy rich so I can afford it, why would I need guidance to start with? I might have had been to private school, had top guidance already and maybe if I'm really wealthy I might not even need a job and I can smooch of my interest alone (or the interest dads company makes for instance)

I think there needs to be done something. Tacking on expenses all the time is not helping and surely it won't be sustainable.

In order to sustain this, I think awareness of disability in employment would help a lot more. Train supervisors and the like in people management and add an extra chapter on disabilities. If I were to ask a supervisor what he knows about say Asperger's, which I think, if 1 in 100 has it, it's not that rare, is retorted by "never heard of that", no wonder people that, for instance aspies, have a hard time functioning in "regular" employment.

This kind of awareness would help a lot more (aside from having a degree and fitting education) in the long run. Throwing money at it and hoping it works seems a short term option and surely isn't the way to go when countries are screaming cutbacks.

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Well, if you follow James Howard Kunstler's "Cluster**** Nation" on Mondays as I do you would know by now very little about our current way of living is sustainable. The question is not whether the collapse will come but how quickly and to what extent?

I am very, very nervous about the economy right now, I think we may be due for another downturn. Get used to it, says Kunstler in "The Long Emergency", this is the new normal. Forget about the dream they sold us back in the 1950's and 1960's--the new name of the game is "survive." You may not have the luxury of holding out for your "dream job."

In some respects I believe that those of us who were not raised with such high expectations for the future are going to be psychologically better off. There are a lot of people I know who talk a good talk about being concerned with the poor but when I look at the houses and neighborhoods they live in I think, you don't know nuthin'. My shabby old trailer park, far from being the village eyesore, may be on the brink of revival. Seriously. Things have not yet gotten so bad that those who have had their $100,000 houses foreclosed on them are putting in applications to move in but if they get as bad as Kunstler and others think, there may be a lot of people who will be swallowing their pride and signing leases in good old Methamphetamine Acres. That, I think would be a most interesting sight.
 
The term/phrase "dream job" makes me laugh out loud. I suspect that I was born at just the right moment in history. Too young to get shot in the bigger wars, too old for the recent wars, I did Vietnam but was repairing electronic gear for the Air Force. Dodging those 122MM Russian rockets was not nearly like being out in the jungle. After that military experience I found a way to make a living when a job was a practical matter; then even changed careers and did the job/career thing again.

The question that was asked a thousand times when I was a child, barely old enough to talk and on until I was a new High School grad, was: "What do you want to be when you grow up?"

Does this sound familiar? If your age is "in the zone," are you getting this same question?

My answer was always something the asker might accept. For me, I never had any slight idea. I knew what my Dad did and could do and had absolutely no intention of ever becoming involved with any of that. In High School and later in the Air Force training programs I was forced to create a 'lifetime economic program' about how much money I was going to make every year and how I was going to spend and save it. In High School I thought doing that project was beyond stupid. The Air Force expected us all to plan on a lifetime career and reach the highest ranks in minimum time. I had seen or heard about the military reduction-in-force programs following: the Spanish-American War; WW-1; WW-2; the Korean War. I, and all the other students, considered that our answers would be a basis for evaluating our commitment to the Service. That made it serious harrassment and stupidity.

Of course, AS was "invented" when I was a grade-schooler and did not become a commonly known condition until I was into my second major career. I did not discover "Aspie" myself until last summer. But, all along the way I experienced most of the Aspie and HFA problems that everyone else in this forum describes and experiences. It is nice to know what the problem is and that I am not alone.

"Dream Job." ROTFL. I attended college because my parents forced me to go. I worked at it as hard as I was capable of doing and graduated. Barely. Then the Air Force; then I was out on the street with a wife and two babies and number three 'in the oven.' Damn! Maximum effort to find something. Struggle and strain. Maybe some folks get help or ideas: I just got a hard time from everywhere. This should sound just like every other story in this forum. Nothing special. Then I got an idea from something I remembered from an ancient conversation and went to all I could do to get some special formal training that did lead into a full time job that became a decent paying career. You already know that my wife hated the job I did (long-haul trucking) and her family treated me like a leper for it. After two decades, one day I quit. Even worse hate and discontent from wife and family. My take was: "What do you want?" Then I did the formula again: specialized formal training and fell into a lateral career made possible by that training that also worked out. I do feel blessed that in my own time on this planet and in the part of the world I inhabited, it was possible.

"Dream Job:" My little story has to be mainstream average. Most of us, Aspie or otherwise on the Spectrum, NT, or whatever else there may be, really never have a clue or else our childhood ideas are beyond impossible when push has its wrestling match with shove as we officially become adults. "What do you want to be?" Answer is almost always-- actually, in the silent part of our being,-- "Damn If I Have The Slightest Clue!!!!!!!!!" Out in the world when we find ourselves abandoned on the streets in the cold wind and rain, we find something and somebody where we can force our way through the door with the threat of the appropriate laws and then work and survive but only because the laws keep the owners and supervisors from firing us just because they don't like the color of our eyes or the texture of our skin or some other silly or stupid reason.

No wonder we all hate our jobs and hate our bosses.

And: with reference to Spinning Compass, above, I have read a lot of James Howard Kunstler in other forums and he is one of the many over-educated wealth-privledged idiots who do not have a clue about how it is for the majority of us who must struggle and work our tailbones off every day. These idiots cannot imagine or relate or realize that they as members of the few wealthy and contrarian parts of society depend on and feed directly from the backs of those of us whose hands are always dirty from our work and who actually do every day the bottom-line slavish unpleasant basics that keep it all going.
 

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