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Acceptance, Self Love, Change


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Let me give you a tip. Everyone is crazy, society just deems one type of crazy 'socially acceptable' it is not about being the right type of crazy, but confidence in the type of crazy that you are

Not everyone is going to like you, even if you are confident. But no one is liked by everyone when they are being themselves. There is truth to the saying, be yourself. Yes, not every personality is equal in likeability, but by not being yourself, you loose parts of likeability already within your personality. The trick is too be confident to boost the likeability of your own personality. Your shoes fit, run in them, and stop worrying about the discomfort of every rock you step on

there is no such thing as perfection, know you are going to screw up, but be confident anyways. Because mistakes can be the worst thing in the world, or a learning opportunity to make yourself better

No one is perfect. It is not about being perfect, but good enough to learn when you are not being perfect, so you can be better the next time

learn from mistakes

accept mistakes as a consequence of life, feel bad from your mistakes, and learn from your mistake

I made a butt load of mistakes just a second ago, I learned what I did wrong, what I did right. I mitigated the damage of my mistakes by saying I am sorry for the things I did wrong, and I put into words the things that I did wrong and learned. Next time, I I am better equipped, and I am ready to make more mistakes.

was this a mistake? talking so much? did I bother anyone? Was I doing anything wrong? I want to know to be better

I feel at this moment more content than I have felt in the past four years. Even taking into account the times I stood at the top of a mountain with my skis

I wish I could share this feel with all of you. The best way I know too do so is to teach what I know. I say all this to help, because this world needs someone to help others for the simple sake of empathy and love. It sounds super cheesy, but I love everyone, and I want to help everyone I can. The world needs more love, and I will do the best I can with what I have.

confidence is something learned. Not something someone gets randomly.

It is a processes, but the best way I know how to live

Love yourself, and all of the stupid things, all the good things, everything. Your mother does, someone loves you, why not love yourself. No matter who you are, you are worthy of your own love. Love yourself, and everything about yourself.

love, Understand, accept, learn.

Conquer

These things I say are not some motivational poster stuff, this is the thing I have learned over the past four years of being suicidal

I learned, and I made the decision too live because of these things I learned

Love is universal, the benefits are universal. I believe with everything that makes me, me, that love in the answer to all of our problems.

I had crippling social anxiety a few weeks ago, and now I am liberated from it.

No one is perfect, I am going to fall for the same mistakes that everyone does, but I am okay with making mistakes

Love yourself, do things in which people don't like, be annoying. I sure am, but I am okay with being annoying, because it is me. People accept my annoyingness, and like it because I am okay with being annoying

am far from perfect in everyone's eyes. I accept that. I also accept myself enough to not care what everyone thinks, because no one is loved by everyone.

there are consequences for the ways I act, but I accept them as a part of my life. There are always going to be emotions, and bad days. Such is life

Fitting in is horrid. No one should want to be a sheep. You are no sheep, don't act like a sheep, because that is not who you are

But don't think you can look like a sheep

you can fit in, but you don't have to change yourself to fit in

Changing yourself makes you stand out.

Being yourself, even if you are not a sheep, makes you fit in

We can improve yourself

but never change yourself

yup, but not the change that makes us a different person, just a better version of yourself. Change is necessary, but being someone else is not that

I was wrong. About myself, about other people. I was wrong. The way I feel right now I never thought was humanly possible. I was wrong to almost kill myself the amount of times that I tried. I was wrong. And now, from others, from myself. I know it too be wrong. I was wrong, I have much to give to this world, and this world will give it all back. I was wrong. I was wrong.

Don't make my mistakes, I was wrong. Please don't make my mistakes. I was wrong. I don't know if you are wrong, but I was willing to die for what I thought was right, and I was wrong.

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I appreciate your writing. I have been in this place where you are at and I am trying my best to get back there. I struggle with Major Depression and some traumatic things happened about 4 years ago that broke me down.. since then I have been trying to build myself back up and genuine thoughts like these from others really help. Thank you!
 

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